well yesterday this boy had a little attitude with me and hung up on me and now today he is calling me like he never did what he did and this is not the first time...like does he have slpit personalities or is there a bigger picture that i am not seeing??????
2007-03-20 12:03:38 · 19 answers · asked by lilmizzd2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boys are just like puppies they do what they do because they can
2007-03-20 12:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys think, "If I don't make a big deal out of this and pretend it didn't happen, then maybe everyone else will too"....it is a natural way of preserving an ego without having to give an apology.
Sometimes an apology is too hard to say, so the avoidance of the subject all together and leaping forward to the next situation is easier than analyzing what is now to him, 'the past' ..
But I must agree, as ladies we tend to 'over think it' too often instead of going with the flow, so occasionally, let the boys have one for their side of not having to explain everything and let it slide by... just so long as it doesn't become a habit and acceptable behavior as a respect issue with you personally.
Only allow him to avoid the subject for so long, when you are fed up, call him on it, and let him know that you won't continue to accept that way of friendship. But again, use straightforward directions to him of what you'll accept without a lot of details to confuse, upset, or embarrass him.
Remember the old adage, men like to talk as little as they have to to get the point across. They don't like to be hounded about a single subject or look deeply into the psyche of a female to get answers to (or to answer for) their own thoughts.
2007-03-20 19:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The way guys work is a little different than the way girls do in relationships. Just look at how girls act with their friends. I know a lot of girls who will tell me they are "fighting" with so and so because she may have called her a ***** and have not talked since. Now on the guys side, I have a friend who kept making fun of me until I punched him... next day we both pretended it didn't happen.
Guys, as most pople know, don't tend to like to wear their hearts on their sleeves. He may have been frustrated for a number of reasons when he hung up, but because he's calling you back and expecially since he's not mentioning it, he probably regrets doing it. He probably wont appologize but that's guys for you.
So he's not crazy, it's just a guy thing. There's not really a bigger picture either. As a general rule I'd take it as an unspoken appology, you could ask him about it though and he'd probably appologize.
2007-03-20 19:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just hormones...... Let him know how you feel about this behavior and how upset it makes you. Maybe next time he has an attitude, Hang up on him before he has a chance to do it to you. If he calls you back, tell him if he has an attitude with you you don't have to listen and wait for him to hang up on you!!!
2007-03-20 19:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by lsjcmo3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to realize that guys... we have suddle mood swings. People call it the male "pmsing" which is stupid, but somewhat relative. Testosterone(cant spell) is a weird chemical, and no one can change that. It shouldnt be something to look into, just try and forget about it, unless its extremely repetitive, then maybe he has something wrong with him, or he just counts the rainy days.
2007-03-20 19:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a bigger picture. He likes you a lot. He was mad at you because he is a guy and now he relizes he likes you more than he though. He doesn't want to lose you.
2007-03-20 19:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan "Batman" Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just pain stupid and childish. Tell him not to hang up on you anymore. If he does don't talk on the phone with him anymore. Maybe he was not suppose to be on the phone. He was probably sneeking on the phone and then mom and dad walked in and he had to hury up and hang up. Just ask him why he hung up.
2007-03-20 19:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being immature and you should not waste your time. He is playing games, and life is to short for games. If you really like him then confront him about it. You need to be blunt but gentle. If you don't like him, give him subtle hints or just tell him to stop calling you. Good Luck
2007-03-20 19:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy i have to say DON:T WORRY that's how we work like girls do stuff like that too but they don't realize so obviously guys don't realize it either just remember what makes sense to a guy will not make sense to girls and vise versa so don't sweat it if doesn't come out a and apologizes a guy will never do that unless he's joking or feels guilty so relaxxxxxx
2007-03-20 19:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Momo70707 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say not only boys do those things some girls do it to. he was probably in a bad mood and was taking it out on you. and he realize it, and probably doesn't want to admit to it so he is pretending like it never happened.
2007-03-20 19:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's this book that i read that i think you might wanna go its called (for young women only)its great its so funny and tells you alot about what you are asking
2007-03-20 19:08:26 · answer #11 · answered by alisha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋