ok, so i told my frined olivia that i liked this gut that she is good frinds with. he hasnt found out and i know that he wont until i tell him or he figures it out. today, olivia came up to me and asked me not to get mad at what she was going to say. i said sure...ill love you no matter what (she is like one of my bffs). she ten told me that she liked thie same guy i do too. i still love her, but he knows her way better than me and i have a bad feeling he would pick her over me. i mean he asked her out like 4 times in the begining of the year. the only thing is he flirts with me alot. and i have like him for weeks and olivia knew. why would she do this? do you think i still have a chance?
2007-03-20 12:01:28 · 19 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow if she was ur bff then she wouldnt do something like that 2 u. thats retarted, but yea girl u deffinetly have a chance, but let her know that u think its great that she's honest with you, but why is she starting to like this guy, when you do? she had her chance when he asked her out, if she really liked him she would have said yes to him then, but now that she knows u like him, she probably feels threatened, and has decided to like him herself. talk to her. remember chicks over *****, but she is clearly not a good friend if she had an idea of your reaction already! . i hope i helped, good luck! <3
2007-03-20 12:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by cus i forgot my name...? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dayumn thats a tough sitiuation but first never let boys come bewteen friends but however sometimes thats a test to see who ur true friends are but anywayz well personally i think you still have a chance with him if he flirts with you usually in some boys flirting shows that they like you and want to get to know you little by little and they are thinking or hey just flirtatious and sometimes when they ask the girl out it could be that they just want another notch in their belt because if asked 4 times that means he was just determined to get her right then and there for the moment and nothing long term but thats just sometimes but i think u have a chance go for it gurl and good luck
2007-03-20 19:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very complicated sweetie...If you guys still want to be friends then i would suggest that you both leave him alone. Because if he picks you over her then she'll be bitter,and if he picks her over you then you'll be bitter. No guy is worth a good friend cause men come and go but good friends are always there.. So just talk to her about it and she how you both feel.
Good Luck keep me posted on how it goes..
2007-03-20 19:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, hey! that's your bff! don't let a guy get in the way! not to be mean but no guy should ever get in teh way of a great friendship. if i were you, i would let time take its course and if he picks her, he does and it'll be okay. but if he flirts with you and if those two go out, then be your best friend and tell her. no matter what, stay her best friend.
2007-03-20 19:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's possible that she's liked him all along and she isn't trying to do anything bad. She probably just wanted you to know the truth. I don't think you should worry about it right now, it's not like either one of you are dating him yet. If you really like him, ask him out and see what happens!
2007-03-20 19:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mingt have a chance with him if you tell him you like him yourself. but honestly how much are you willing to sacrifice in your friendship? if you value friends more than guys do not go for him, and let her have him becuase triangles with bffs involved are not pretty, friendships have a hard time surviving those. but if you value guys over girls, then be agressive, tell him you like him and flirt/talk to him more. ask him to hang out sometime. good luck
2007-03-20 19:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both your girlfriend and you should ditch the guy.
he sounds like a big flirt that gets off on himself.
they do not make good husbands later on either, because they always want attention from other females.
2007-03-20 19:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait... oliva already knows this guy, you just jumped in the picture and expect her to give you everything. You are totally disregarding her feelings
there's no first call, girl.
stop being so selfish and grow up
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2007-03-20 19:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, just wait and see, but stand your ground, I think if she knew you liked him she should have stayed away since obviously she was aware of your feelings, some friend.
2007-03-20 19:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋