i cant seem to find a boyfriend...im 120...5"4 blonde and i do cheerleading...but im not prepy..(more emo punk)and i havent had a boyfriend in 5 years...im haveing a hard time with this i need help!
2007-03-20 11:51:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a guy, but I'm in a similar situations as you, I'm almost 19 and I've had one boyfriend (and he was pretty girly). Guys may be intimidated to talk to you because you're a cheerleader. They tend to be self confident and independent so sometimes they come off as unapproachable.
Don't worry, you've gotta stop trying to get a date, guys can pick up on it and they'll avoid you thinking you're desperate. Act as if it makes no difference to you and love will find away.
As much as it sucks, just gotta be patient hun
2007-03-20 11:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An emo punk cheerleader? Things have changed in school.
Are you cute? If you're cute, just put yourself out there and flirt more. If you're approachable and friendly, throw a little eye contact at a guy you like and see if he responds.
If you're not so cute, make friends with a guy you like and hang out once in awhile under the pretext of going to lunch or getting help with homework.
The more you're around guys in social situations, the more likely that situation will become romantic.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are looking too hard. relax and enjoy your youth and when the time is right it will come.
2007-03-20 18:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by cacowboy_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋