would this be too awkward? Should we invite other people? Should we go bowling, to a movie, or iceskating? Would this even work out and help me? And most importantly, would the guy get freaked out by this? im in middle school and i sit next to him in english so we talk and we know each other...and sometimes we flirt but anyways...do you think he would be annoyed and freaked out by this? and if i should invite other people, how many?
sorry its a long question....but thanks!
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2007-03-20 11:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nooo!!! Let it just be you 4! It's SO much fun to double date, and I'm sure you guys will probably end up being boyfriend and girlfriend.
Don't invite other people! You guys should do something fun, like bowling or ice skating. I wanna go too! lol
Good luck and I hope everything goes good!
2007-03-20 11:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people you want there besides your friend, her bf and yourself is your crush's friend (male). Tell your friend to invite one of his friends, that way there are more people, it's not so awkward and you might even have it to where your crush's friend says something good about you when you're not around and in turn, since your crush already has had a connection with you in the past (via the class) he will likely act upon that and try to get more intimate with you. If you can't get him to invite his friend, no worries. Just don't invite any more girls other than your friend, girls + small groups + guy you like = bad competition. If he goes alone, just act normal and happy and like you don't even realize you like him. Wait for him to make a move, or when there is a relaxed moment and you two are near each other, you make a move - even if your friend is there.
2007-03-20 19:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are SO nervous!!! Calm done girl!
If you would feel more comfortable with another person, invite a good friend of yours. Do not invite more than 1 or two because if you want to tell one a secret, you know you have to tell the other one(s) it too.
I think you should do something you all like doing. If you want to do something that isn't too romantic, I would say go bowling, but it sounds to me that you and him can very easily be hooked up at the rink. I mean, you talk to him, FLIRT with him. I would say the rink if your going towards more romantic and if you want to take chances, (like go and hold his hand or skate next to him) or....go to the bowling alley and get on his team. (less romantic, but what the hey!)
I don't think he would get freaked out at all. Y'all should like good friends. If he doesn't seem flirtatious, don't get too cozy around him or flirty, and you can kinda keep everything down low and casual. Like no holding hands. You can hold hands if he seems very flirty and is inviting you to flirt, but if not, keep it too a casual conversation.
It seems like it would be a fun night. Remember, if you want to have a one on one convo though, you might have better chances if you don't invite more people.
I really hope I could help, it sounds like you'll have fun. Best of luck, ~isa B-)
2007-03-20 19:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great idea, go for it! I would go to the movies, and maybe you could all go out to eat after? And I don't think the guy would get freaked out, especially since his friend will be there too, its totally a double date, and it sounds like fun.
2007-03-20 18:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by cute girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't want to invite other people because it can cause competition and u don't want that. You all should go to dinner and then a movie. dinner because then you and him and have conversation. The movie because then you'll be close to each other and go see a one so that way he'll if he wants to touch you it won't seem awkward.
2007-03-20 19:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by da wifey of ur dreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about lucky!
Just the 4 of you...ask your friend to ease off of the lovey-dovey with her boyfriend while on the date so that your date doesn't feel pressured by it. Get to know him and talk, then you can jump off and do something on your own next time.
Middle school...isn't that max 14 years old? Whew, things are changing.
2007-03-20 18:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called friends hanging out in the same circle. He shouldn't freak. It sounds like your the one freaked out about it.
2007-03-20 19:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by str8 4ward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if might be a little akward
you don't really have to invite other ppl it will be fine lol
you should probly go somewhere public any of the 3 are good
he probly won't freak out don't worry soo much lol
hope you have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 18:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by tt_2011_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go to the movies because
it's dark and romantic don't invite anyone or it ill be ruined
2007-03-20 20:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by brunette_cheergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great idea -- go for it! Just the four of you is fine.
2007-03-20 19:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋