She has a playroom full of toys that she just refuses to go in and play with.
2007-03-20 11:39:00 · 14 answers · asked by Katie B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I'm sorry, i should have been a little more specific. She has a younger sister that does enjoy the toys but she won't play with her. I also try to play with her but she's not interested, she gets frustrated with games. She likes to sit and flip and read books with me, she also likes to write names and practice writing her letters, i'm not saying that's a bad thing, i would just like to see her use her imagination a little more.
2007-03-20 12:59:34 · update #1
hello, well my answer might seem different than others but if your daughter doesnt like to interact with others you might tell this to her pediatrician, she is very bright in other aspects as you say like redaing and writing.... i see some autistic traits there. you might try to look into that. im not saying she is autistic but who knows...not interacting with ppl is one of the symptoms and even being bright in some areas. she might have aspergers.
2007-03-20 15:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by mom_princess77 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a 6 year old that is the same way. Well she doesnt get weird when i ask her to play but he has alot of books and things to draw with. Her 2 year old sister is following in her footsteps and already knows her ABC'S and numbers through 10. It is perfectly ok that your daughter would rather cuddle up with a book or practice writing names and drawing pictures she is using her imagination just fine with that. These things can help her in school and help her to be a better reader and writer. Maybe she draws pictures and uses her imagination through that. Sometimes toys can get boring because they are the same old toy. Allow her to use her creativity through books and learning if that is what she is happier doing. Try not to force her into doing something that she doesnt really enjoy. Maybe she can show her little sibling a book and get creative with drawing and they can do it together. Great learning experience.
2007-03-20 18:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Diana. I do daycare and just went to a class on child development; autism and developmental delays. There is a large spectrum of autism some are mild cases and some are severe. If your daughter also doesn't like to be around other children and plays by herself that is another sign. Does she go to pre-school? Do other people notice the same things. Does she stick to the same routine? Does something out of the routine drive her nuts (cause anxiety)There are a lot of things to take into consideration. Remember even if you are scared to find out what it may be it is better to catch it earlier than later, so she can get the proper therapy. I have a son who has Cerebral Palsy he is 5 and some days it is still hard for me to accept that this is his life. But I am so happy for catching it so early that now his doctors can't believe what he can do because of all the therapy he recieved early in his life. My belief is you had this child for a reason and you would do anything for your child ... right? There are people out there willing to help.
2007-03-20 16:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she can play with friends? Bring her friends over make a play date and maybe then she'll play with her toys then. Other then that, she's fine she likes to practice her letters and write her name thats great! She's a girl girls loove doing things like that her age.
2007-03-20 14:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is she hates to play alone. My children never wanted to go down to the playroom by themselves. Try by starting with some playdates with other kids, to encourage her play skills.
2007-03-20 12:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does she do instead, write the great American novel?
Toys are not always the answer...interaction is more important. Play peek a boo, go for a bike ride, etc.
2007-03-20 11:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my so is the same way beacause at this age they like to play with other kids most kids around this age dont want to be alone in a room filled with even the best toys
set up play dates with other kids if possible
also ibet if you offerd to go in and play too she would want to
2007-03-20 11:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a fun mother- daughter thing. Look for local yoga lessons for people of all ages, or maybe something with music.
2007-03-20 11:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lester Copafeel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your definition of "play"? I assume she's not just sitting motionless doing nothing.
2007-03-20 11:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUH did it ever occur to her that what she NEEDS isn't a playroom full of toys but rather a mother who will spend some time with her?
2007-03-20 11:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋