i dont know what to with my feelings for my x-boyfriend. i love him so much. my feelings for him haven't changed. we were talking today and brought up the topic that people tell him that i still have a thing for him. i told him that i didn't know anymore. i couldn't tell him my true feelings considering i didn't know what to say.so i lied to him. he said that it was flattering but he wants me to try and move on with my life. he wants me to find another guy. he also said there has to be someone out there for me.
for me going out with someone isn't being fair when i still love my x-boyfriend. it doesn't feel right. what should i do? should i tell him my honest feelings for him?
2007-03-20 11:37:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe dat u should stand up and tell him...b/c in reality u will feel much better...But prepare urself for n e and everything...b/c even though u may like him feeling may not b mutual.....Stand strong and dnt over think wat u wanna say....The truth come out naturally so dont rush it
2007-03-20 11:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to tell him your honest feelings towards him becuase he already knows or else he wouldnt have had that conversation with you. and even though he knows he still wants you to move on and find a different guy. that is because he no longer has feelings like that twards you, and probably just thinks of you as a friend. its so painful when you see an ex boyfriend with another girl if you still have feelings for him. but you dont want to keep on waiting around for him if hes not going to be coming back. and remember you guys broke up for a reason. so my suggestion is do like he says and try to move on, stop talking to him so you wont get hooked on him and memories from the past. what happend in the past was great, but its in the past and its time to move on. so just go out there, have fun, flirt and find a new guy.
2007-03-20 18:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well isn't he a sweetie? He might pour out the sugary words, but he's ripping out your heart. Stop telling him your honest feelings. Leave him alone. Don't be his friend. You just can't, it hurts too much. Move on. Meet new people. Leave him alone. You and your heart need to heal. It will, in time, and then if you still think he's so grand, you can be his friend. More than likely, given some time and space, you'll see he isn't all that after all and you will feel so much better inside. Take care of you. First and foremost!
2007-03-20 18:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to take some time apart from him. Go out meet new people and see what happens. Missing someone forever isn't the way to live, if you give each other space and you can move on then I'm sure you can have a great friendship in the long run.
2007-03-20 18:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Matt777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he's told you to move on, then it's time for you to do just that. Even though it hurts and you still have feelings for him, you have to try to put this relationship behind you now, and channel your energies into finding a new partner to fill that space. Telling him how you really feel would be pointless because he has told you himself to move on with your life. Sorry, but you'd only become more wrapped up in him and that's not good for your future relationships. Cut him loose - over time your feelings for him will fade, and Mr Right will be there waiting for you... Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to move on but maybe it's for the best and if you get along wth him you should be honest with him about how you feel
and remember nothing is fair in life, there are some things we just have to deal with, cuz they can't be changed.
also if he says there has to be somoone outherefor you then maybe he isn't the best guy for you, life is all about taking risks there is no love that comes without pain, so try and live with it the best you can
2007-03-20 18:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lil_B4ByLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows that you sill have feelings for him. That is why he said those things. You need to try and move on because obviously he is not interested anymore.
The number way you can move on is doing No contact. That will help you get over him.
2007-03-20 18:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like it dont make any sense tellin him your tru feelings because he already expressed that if u do like him that u STILL have to move on. and he might have caught on to your lie becuz he still went on explaining that u need to move on which was unnecessary if u told him u dont like him. plus if u two still talk he probably thinks that u after him and desperate because he wants u to find another guy and that "someone out there" u
tell him if u want to tell him. who knows it might make a difference. he probably lying to himself by telling u to move on or he has some1 else in the pic that he wants u to leave him alone.
2007-03-20 18:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by CaribbeanChica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you the answer. Find another guy. When you brake up with someone you move on. Going back only cause problems.
2007-03-20 18:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt even bother telling him. because it sounds to me as if he is done with you. hate to say it like that...but im not goin to sugar coat it...let's be real...he's asking you to find someone else...then you should do jus that. you never goin to let go what you feel for your ex. because thats jus how love is. you cant jus stop loving them....and if you did. then it was never love in the first place...you know...so he will always have a special place in your heart but believe me there are plenty of guys out there that will do you right and love you with all their heart and you will love them back and your love for your ex will jus be friendly. you know...you'll have love for him but you wont be inlove...you get what im saying...so goodluck and hope i helped...adios
2007-03-20 18:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋