Okay so here it is, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost 3 years. We have no kids. We've spent most of our relationship apart because of work and school. I'm only 23 now and all I can think about is making a run for mexico or Italy or Australia or anywhere! but I feel like if he comes with me I won't get what I want out of the experience. but it's being really difficult to break up with him because things are relatively fine. I'm scared that I've found someone who will love me until the day I die and I'm going to screw it up. But that I need to get things done for me. I guess can you love someone and want to be with them and just know they really aren't the right person.
thinkning about this soooooo much driving me crazy.
2007-03-20 11:24:19 · 2 answers · asked by sweet_marie08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need to get away and think about this.
2007-03-20 11:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definately need some "you" time. To truly determine if this is what you really want. I went through the same thing awhile ago.. and came to realize, I was looking for something perfect that didn't exsist. There is NO perfect relationship, no perfect person.. and no relationship will be like what you see in the movies where it takes your breath away everytime you kiss forever and ever... it's all magic and love in the beginning, but that fades into reality.. bills,work,stress.. it becomes "comfortable" and we're constantly wanting the "fireworks" we had in the beginning.. and they just aren't there... It's your life, and you only live once.. make it a life you can look back on with happiness... not regret !
2007-03-20 18:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋