GOSH ok well theres this guy that like. its not a huge deal but i have a little crush on him. it gets annoying because when were together we cuddle and sometimes kiss and stuff but he says he doesnt want a girlfriend. and if my friends tell him to ask me out he just says i dont know. this has been going on for like almost a month and i just dont want to like him anymore becuase its going nowhere. so can anyone tell me how to get over it!?
2007-03-20 11:21:34 · 15 answers · asked by kathy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay there are a few ways to get over him. You can write down a list of things that you hate about him and every time you hear his name, see him, or talk about him think only about the negatives. That one helps but the thing I did to get over a guy I had a crush on is I went out for a whole day and just had fun I didn't think about anyone else. If you do this you just relax think of nothing go and do something fun and just think about what your doing and nothing else. Then the next day you should realize that you went through a whole day without even thinking about him, and that you are better off with out him. So have fun and relax, don't think about things too much. (I did this and it worked!)~Good Luck!
2007-03-20 11:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know your circumstances, but if you truly want to get over him then you'll just have to decide to do just that and stand by your decision. Occupy your mind with different interests you might have, hang with your friends, etc. -- just keep busy. You might even want to start innocently flirting with other guys; that can sometimes make a girl feel good when a guy is just paying attention to her. Before you know it, you'll be wondering why you were ever hung up on the dude in the first place.
On the flipside, you might get the guy in the end because you won't be as available to him and he may get a little jealous watching you take interest in other guys. Good luck, but remember to always respect yourself. Girls can be happy without a man in their life.
2007-03-20 18:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by moonbody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK sweetie. The first thing to do is to keep it in front of you that he said he does not want a girlfriend. Stop cuddeling with him and please don't let him kiss you save all of that stuff for the right guy. Second thing is to use all of the time and energy you spend on thinking about him on some thing that you will get results from i.e.; hobbies or sports. Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by andi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that is confusing. But here's a little bit of advice. Whenever he happens to want to spend time with you tell him your busy and can't do it cause you have other plans. Or you can try going out with another guy and maybe his real feelings will come out. However, you can't really make yourself stop liking someone...believe me I've tried and it's very hard.
I wish you luck!
2007-03-20 18:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guyt but i had the same problem.......1st just try your best to keep your mind of of him or occupied like watching television,or yahoo all day,but dont watch,or click on anything that has to do with relationships or stuff like that,maybe cartoons or something.then try your best to stay away from him....dont ignore him just dont make eye contact.keep this up and eventually you'll forget about him and meet a new guy.then you can start hangin out with him without feeling akward.trust this works
2007-03-20 18:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Julio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things go the way they are... I mean are you in a rush to be in a relationship? Don't let your friends get into the middle of this. That will create a disaster...The boy could be just shy or something who knows. I mean give it some time... Maybe he will come around.
2007-03-20 18:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have a boyfriend and dont like anybody so maybe this sint the best suggestion. when he says i dont want to have a girlfriend say me either. Trying my best. Thx
2007-03-20 18:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, what you need to do is, find a better guy so you will have a bigger crush on that guy than the current one
2007-03-20 18:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Skaterdude510 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Meet a new guy or hang out more with ur friends. I am in the same boat as we speak. I like a guy & I know he's a piece of shyt but I still like him??? Soooooo if u want more & he doesn't then it prolly aint worth it.
2007-03-20 18:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
girl, u need 2 tell him" if u don't want 2 be my boy-friend fine. but this can't go on any further!"
2007-03-20 18:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋