Well theres this guy who really likes him but i don't like him. Now he keeps asking me to go out with him or become his girlfriend but i want to say no but i'm afraid that i'll break his heart. What should i do? HELP!
2007-03-20 11:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by luvbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You HAVE to be honest or you really will break his heart if you don't. Just do it nicely (if that's possible) - say stuff like I'm sorry, but I can't be in a relationship with you now, or ever because ... not ready, don't feel a connection, have just come out of a bad r/ship... whatever, but let him down gently. Good luck. Remember you can't make someone love you, and he's got to accept that you don't love him that way.
2007-03-20 12:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before, if you guys start talking about dating make sure you mention in the conversation "I'm not interested in dating at this point in time, I think I wanna focus on my studies for now until I'm set" That will let him know you're not interested, and if he asks after that say "Sorry, but i'm really not looking for a relationship right now, i've got too much going on as it is"
You've gotta make sure you tell him, in this case, your feelings need to come before his.
2007-03-20 11:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything just because you feel sorry for someone. Do you want to be happy with someone or do you just want to settle. Wait till someone you want to date comes along. Then go be happy. Things will fall into place when you are happy. You will know when he comes along I promise
2007-03-20 11:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be afriad to say no. He will get over it. Also if you never say no to a guy you'll end up pregnant and have every std imaginable. I would say No. No one likes a pity date.
2007-03-20 11:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to have to say this, but love hurts in many way's, If your hart is not totaly in love with him you need to tell him that is a nice way. and then you need to move on, and get the quilt away from you.
2007-03-20 11:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by namoper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you politly say the truth, things will work out for the best.
The longer you wait the more difficult it will be.
Honesty is allways best!
2007-03-20 11:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance it might end up really well or just say ''i think you're a great guy but i can't date you i'm going through some personal struggles'' if he asks what's it about say ''my ex died''
2007-03-20 11:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say ur not interested...honesty is the best policy. Don't lead him on b/c that's not fair to him! Good Luck ;-)
2007-03-20 11:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes hot go out with him if not then dont
2007-03-20 11:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Molly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be cruel to be kind,dont let him waste his time with you when he could be looking elsewhere,just break it to him gently but do tell him that you`d just like to be friends,goodluck.
2007-03-20 11:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋