i have a guy friend at school
and i think im starting to like him
but he has a gf and i have a bf too
i mean this guy just likes me as a friend
and i still like my bf
im just really confused right now
can somebody give some advice???
thanks
2007-03-20 11:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Monica, avoid having contact with that guy as much as possible. You need to shift your attention to something else. If you do really love your bf.
You said it already that he has a gf. Anyways, he's not thinking about you. He's into his gf. So there's no way you could be together unless you're both free.
If you can afford to lose your bf, then break up with him. Don't be selfish. It's not fair for him. You can't have them both. So you must choose. Don't deprive someone with their happiness.
2007-03-20 11:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by nontester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it just so happens that you just started to like him. But if this has continued for a while then maybe you really do have a crush on him. It happens...and it sorta sucks. Start spending more time with your bf than your guy friend even if he wants to hang out. Your feelings might eventually change and you'll start liking your bf more.
2007-03-20 18:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same probolum happen to me. You have ot think about the possibiltys
1. Your friend likes you back and you to dump your current bf and gf for each other
2. He dosnt like you and dosnt want to be firends with you. Now you have no bf and theres and awakward part in your friendship.
You have to decide if its worth the risk.
Good Luck :]
2007-03-20 18:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one. you need to sit and think about how much do you really like your bf if you like another guy.if your friend don't have feels or ever said anything about you guys dating it might not be a good idea to bring it up because it would make your friendship weird.i think you should be single or find another guy cuz if you like another guy when you got a bf thats not a good sign.
2007-03-20 18:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by dizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a bf and are interested in another guy that means your bf might not be enough for you and perhaps you should move on.
2007-03-20 18:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ray354 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just have a crush on him that may pass next week. Don't act on it now. See how things progress in the future. Who knows? You don't want to do something that you will regret.
2007-03-20 18:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Monica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to be confused about. Stay with your boyfriend and let him stay with his girlfriend. You four may go out for a cuppa but do draw the line where you belong.
2007-03-20 18:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh...................................................................................................
2007-03-20 18:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋