Im going to give a clear explanation this time. okay. me and my bf are super close. and i really wanna go to the next level and make out with him. well neither of us have ever done it. but we are ready. i mean im almost 16. so please someone help. I need tips on how to actually do it. and how to get into doing it like how to make the move. (i dont really wanna make the first move) PLEASE HELP!..thanks! SO MUCH!
2007-03-20 11:07:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay!..IM NOT TALKING ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH HIM!..everyone is thinking that. haha!..im not ready for that yet!..I mean i want to make out with him!.NOT SEX..hah!..HELP!
2007-03-20 11:20:50 · update #1
you can always just ask him if he wants to and thats how it can start. its really simple. you need to experience it. explore their mouth with you tongue. and just have fun, dont worry about what he's thinking...if he hasn't done it yet neither of you should be that good. it'll take practice but its fun.
2007-03-20 11:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start by renting a girlie movie 1 with kissing n romance in it but 1 that won't make either of u uncomfortable.Have some candles lit lights out n watching the movie stop in the middle to make some popcorn or get some soft drinks.Then u can tell him that u really like him n feel ready to go to the next level n kiss him.Make sure u no he is ready cuz there is nothing worse then feeling humiliated but it is your b/f so it should b fine.He might be just as nervous n is afraid to make the first move n this would b the best opportunity.U could always play some video games n when u win kinda jump around in excitement n plant a kiss on him.As far as going any further then kissing don't rush what u decide to do should be very special.U r still very young n if u decide to go further u make sure u take the proper precaution like using more then 1 form of birth control.I'm sure at your age u wouldn't want to be a mom u need to concentrate on school n your future.Good luck n hope that helps.
2007-03-20 18:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem as u n i asked friends for advise, but that didnt help, everybodys different n u just have 2 go with the flow. If u dont wanna make the first move try starring in his eyes u know with thoese sexy eyes. That will turn him on or just touch, on his face really soft, try touching the back of his head n neck while talk'n 2 him n a soft n sexy voice, or lean n really close 2 him when u talk 2 him n maybe he'll make the first move. You might even be able 2 do all these things at the same time. But remember just go with the flow relax n u'll be ok.
2007-03-20 18:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am going to give you a good answer, but you are probably not going to like it. First of all you are not ready to do it or you wouldn't be asking the questions that you are asking. It sounds as though you want to do it because you are almost 16. Why give something very special away just because you think it is time. If you can get past the raging hormone period, you will be glad that you waited. It will not be pleasant until you are older, more mature and wiser and in a serious solid relationship.
2007-03-20 18:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Well you don't necessarily have to make the first move, but you have to help him along. Its very possible that he wants to as well but has no idea how to go about it. So first make sure your in a place where you will have privacy. Then maybe sit on his lap or when he has his arm around you turn to face him and talk to him(keeping your face close to his). Most guys at this point will kiss you and instead of pulling away simply take that next step. But if he doesn't just lean in and kiss him, and then take it from there.
2007-03-20 18:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem eager to give be keen to give this boy your passion .
On that note as a father of sons and daughters I will advise you.
Tell your boy Friend of your feelings first he may not be as ready as you and if he is you will both know .
Passionate love can be a wonder full thing between two people that really love one another . Intercourse does not necessarily have to take place .
Fore play is a good place to start .
Offer him a massage .
Naked of course . Work his back buttocks thighs and genitalia . Slowly and with passion .If you do it for him he will do it for you .
If you are meant to go that step further it will happen with out words .
If it does not happen neither of you are probably ready . You still will have given him and he you pleasure and taken the relationship to the next level.
Please don't rush into intercourse you are only 16 and I dare say so is he .
You can only have one first time make it right as loving as nice as you possibly can.
At your age fore play is very important . often it is as far as you will need to go .
Take your time
2007-03-20 18:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by kevin d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to break it to you but, If you have to ask this question then your not ready. When two people are ready to take things to the next level, It should come naturally. Your not even 16, you have plenty of time for that!!! Take your time. I guarantee you will know what to do and it will be the best for both of you! Your body is a gift, Use it wisely!!
2007-03-20 18:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by lsjcmo3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok i understand how u feel.. i felt the same at the age 13. Basically you are building it up too much trust me. When you do it for the first time ALL anxiety will go and it will just feel natural. If you are ready then you will know when the time is right. For example when you are with him lean over and move slowly towards him. The kissing itself is NOT hard at all, basically repetitive kissing with tongues touching and moving about.
Have fun :D
Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to go to the next level then you need to make a hint or make the move. I would just go for it. The next time he kisses you open your mouth and put your tongue on his lips and see what he does... Either he will pull away and not be ready or he will dig in. Once you start you will get into it.. believe me. Don't think about it too much... just do it.
2007-03-20 18:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pin him up against a wall and start kissing him lol jk that's your choice...just kiss him, or tell him you want to kiss him more, it's not as hard as it may seem. A lot of people just start I can't explain it. Don't think about it too much, why don't you wait for the moment. With one of my boyfriends the first time we made out was when we were fooling around tickling each other and our faces were really close. If you think saying something is too awkward, wait for a moment when he is close.
2007-03-20 18:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, well i will try and help you as much as possible. ok well if you like him a lot and want to then i think you should make the first move. i know you don't want to but he might be just as nervous as you are. sometimes its best to make the first move. guys like that. but if that really bothers you then try and give him hints when you two are together... like lick you lips and get closer to him... to show him you want a kiss. if its your first time making out or just your first time making out with him then start with a kiss and work into making out. i know it seems hard to make the move but you have to face your fears and just do it because in the end it is always worth it.
i really hope this helped even just a little... BUT REMEMBER,
confidence is key =)
2007-03-20 18:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by kathy r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋