so much you want dont believe in love anymore
2007-03-20 11:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh boy, that really stings, doesn't it? Unfortunately, inspite of the major advances in science and medicine, the cure for the broken heart is still nowhere to be found. It's too lame to say "charge it to experience" but right now, that's really all that makes sense. To deny yourself the possibility of falling in love again is not the answer...it just seem that way now but in time (an "eternity" for some), the right person would come along and the happy ending will be there for you.
Will it comfort you to know that nobody dies from a broken heart? C'mon, gimme a break...I'm just trying to cheer you up.
Be cool!
2007-03-20 11:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would like to say things happen for a reason. You must look past your own desires and be a true husband to your wife. You also must love yourself more than anything in order to give love to others. As far as the young lady you have mentioned, do not think for one second the grass is greener on the other side. Most men and women tend to look for other people to validate a void that is presented in a current relationship. I suggest you stop being self-centered and see your actions will devastate the people that love you. I also feel suicide is a selfish act and again it goes back to what I said, It should never be just about you. Love fully to what you already have instead of a temporary fix. Get counseling and count your blessing to be able to live life. You have a responsibility to put your family first and love your wife with care and tenderness. Remember your not only took an oath with your wife but you have also took a oath before God. Most importantly, love is not pain if you treat others the way you want to be treated.
2016-03-29 09:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have been there and done that and it's not easy to get through that at all because it carries on in your life with other relationships right.
So like I said I know it's hard but who ever hurt you with love remember that, that was how that person was and also know that you deserve to be treated as the great person you are. It's like this. When you meet someone new just try and give then the benifit of the doubt but don't let your heart get into it right away, don't let your guard down, protect your heart.
Not everyone is going to treat you right in life and that sucks but that's the way it goes. And after being hurt you just hate when people try to be so nice because then you think that somethings is up with that and it is scary as hell so just take your time and never give up on love because of someone that has hurt you, there will be someone better that will come along.
But in the mean time give yourself a chance to work on you and try to enjoy your life again. Get back to smiling and laughing again, get out with some friends and chill, do somethings that just make you feel awesome and try to just leave that hurt in the past because you are a great person and not one person that gets hurt by love should live the rest of their life like it's over and they will never be happy again.
You just need some time to build up trust again, you will have happiness in your life one day but hey be ready for it so you don't push it away.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 16:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotionally afflicted pain is the worst kind. It will take time but you will eventually want to connect with someone else. It's okay to take some time off of relationships, but at least try to maintain some friendships. Life is long, don't rule out anything.
2007-03-20 11:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lorrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain caused by affairs of the heart can only be treated by oneself. Drop the thought, you drop the pain. Move on. It's no point crying over spilled milk.
2007-03-20 11:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately a feeling that sucks. I personally think that the only way is to get over that person completely. You have to get them out of your mind. Fill up your time with friends and activities. Try to stay away from that person as hard as it may be.
2007-03-20 11:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Detachment!
2007-03-20 11:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
my gf was like that with her first boyfriend (who was a backstabbing asshole rat dumbass whatever) and she just knew he wasn't for her because he disrespected her
if you had to separate because of different circumstances like school or family... that pain doesn't go away
2007-03-20 11:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sad when you fall out of love with love----------perhaps one day you will discover real love. One thats a two way street
2007-03-20 11:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time
2007-03-20 11:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by coquinegra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋