i'm 18 and for some reason i have this feeling that older women are easier for younger guys like me(but of course, even older women don't find me attractive). i mean, you see all these stereotype scenarios everywhere, like the teacher seducing her male student and the housewife seducing her son's friend. it seems to imply that women even in their 30s are generally most find guys in their teens and early 20s most sexually attractive. some women say it's true and some say it isn't. if we're talking solely about sexual attraction, is this true or is it just media crap?
2007-03-20 11:05:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
remember we're talking about sexual attraction, not for a relationship. be honest.
2007-03-20 11:05:51 · update #1
Most outstanding question my friend, I can speak on this with some authority.
Growing up I thought about the same as you, that I was unattractive, etc... It wasnt until I finally found someone who was 13 years my senior, who was able to allow me to sprout and lets just say give me a helping hand.
What the problem is that younger men and older women are a little more sexually compatible, the older woman has been to the show, she's seen whats behind the curtain, she knows the whole retarded idea of prince charming is just that, retarded. So she knows that with a younger man, its not about sweeping her off her feet, its about having a "friend", someone she can teach, someone she can control, someone who has the energy to keep UP.
Younger women, well they still have this lame notion that prince charming will come, and if you are a nice guy, ferget it, nice guys finish last with younger women, trust me, trust my wife, she'll tell you the same, and my experience in life only goes to prove it true.
My suggestion to you is this. Begin talking to women on here, never mind a pic, something retarded with your shirt off or anything with you trying to show off, like I said, older women dont go for that. Just be yourself, have a decent conversation and before you know it, you two will be having a drink at her house.... preferably with her husband not home. lol....
And yes, there are many women out there who are married and just want to have some fun, I was that case. And you know what, in the end, it made me a more confident person, and I think it helped to make me a better lover.
2007-03-20 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Older women and younger guys are more sexually compatible, than an older woman and an older man. Guys reach their sexual peak in their late teens and early 20's and women reach their sexual peak in their 30's. So sexualy speaking they are more compatible but may not be socialy compatible. If I just want to get my freak on and do it all night I will look for a young guy. If I want to have a stimulating conversation and nice night out I will look to date sombody my own age. Hope this helps - try an older woman - they are more experienced and less self concience. They will get in there and grab what they want and not be shy like a younger girl may be. Think you will find it very satisfactory - rent the movie "The Graduate"
2007-03-20 18:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oky i'm a 29yrs old female and i'm single....for my own point of view i'm looking for more secure relationship than being intimate only....also if a met a guy who's younger than me...i'm kinda wanna step back cuz like we all know younger man are more on FUN TIME...which i do understand cuz i been there...
but for some reason i met ayounger guy 22yrs old...we click that fast.....actually i'm slim and i'm 4" 11....so most of the time people think i look younger.......if ever i build anything with this guy..i want it to be a secure relationship...which is i already let him know....
so my answer to your question its all depend which person it was....i have a 100% respect for myself and i have son to be worrying about to be messing around....i hope u got my point...
2007-03-20 18:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, when I was a young man of 18, I was used by a woman who was a family friend...this went on for about 6 months. but I didn't really care since I was learning how to service a woman and make her happy...i would have paid her for these lessons!
2007-03-20 18:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmmm hell no....im sure there are some situations like that,,,but i would say the norm is NO. That **** isnt even right. Im in my 30 s and i would never ever consider dating someone that young or sleeping with them,,,thats just nasty.
2007-03-20 18:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think so..
Older women usually like men older than they are...
2007-03-20 18:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes
2007-03-20 18:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by tommybokan 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋