Hi! I need a parent's perspective who has kids. I'm 11 and i really like a boy that goes to my church. He's really nice, funny, polite, and really cute! But the problem is he's 14 adn like i said i'm 11. Am i to young to be dating and is he too old for me?
2007-03-20 11:02:16 · 3 answers · asked by Elephant Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How exciting!
If you use him as practice then even if it turns out bad, you'll still win.
Any serious relationship is very risky, not only for heartbreak, but for your own chastity. Being unchaste will bring you nothing but misery, trust me. You probably won't be tempted any time soon, but those feelings will become very powerful in the future. The only way to not fall into temptation is to stay away.
I certainly think you should try to be friends with him. Make sure you talk to him - ask him about what he likes.
2007-03-23 16:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rich K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent, I didn't let my sons date at 11 or 14 so I can honestly say you would not be dating. Enjoy the time you have talking to that young man at church and when you are 16 talk to you parents about dating.
2007-03-20 11:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your adorable. Try being friends with him by talking and in afew years or more, You are only 11 remember he might look at you differently ,but right now sorry sweetie you are a little girl to him . He's probably in high school or will be going to highschool in the fall! Like I said just be friendly and sweet, and in time who knows.
2007-03-20 11:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tree70 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋