My fiance is a doctor and therfore naturally he is very busy , we r crazy about each other , but sometimes i get scared that being all alone like that will somehow make me nicer than i should be with guys who are aroung me in my daily life i dont knw what to do ?
2007-03-20 11:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by babyKitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why are you getting married then???
2007-03-21 09:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say do some serious soul searching, and decide if this is how you want to live for the rest of your life. Because being a doctor's wife does involve being on your own quite a bit, and once children come along, it's even more so. I have several friends whose husbands or wives are doctors, and it works for them. But the spouse who isn't a doctor has to be very supportive, realize that middle of the night phone calls are part of life, that vacations can and will be cancelled at the drop of a hat, and plans can change at a moments notice. If you don't think you can handle living that way, and remain faithful to him living that way, then maybe you shouldn't marry your fiance, because that's really not fair to him. He needs a wife who will be supportive, not cheating on him and whining about how he's never at home.
2007-03-20 18:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried your going to cheat on your husband before you're even married? That sounds like a recipe for disaster. If you really dont' trust yourself around men that much than maybe you should think about getting a hobby that keeps you at home or hang out with all women.
Sounds like you have some growing up to do.
2007-03-20 18:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way you are not the type of woman who can be a doctors wife. A doctors wife needs to be understanding that her husbands career comes first and that he has a demanding schedule. She would also be a lady who would remain faithful. Move on if you can't handle this.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 18:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get to the point and tell him that you dont think that this will work out. i am not saying you two should break up but if persists you should move on. i mean wake up and smell the fresh air! ( alot of guys are available)
or you could make daily visits to his office with a snack or just to say that i love you.
2007-03-20 18:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by stardoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married until you know what to do without asking someone else.
2007-03-20 18:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR ABOUT TO GET MARRIED AND WHATS YOUR MOSTLY WORRIED ABOUT IS HOW NOT TO GET TO FRIENDLY WITH OTHER GUYS, GIRL YOU PROBABLY ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED JUST YET.
2007-03-20 19:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey p`se!
2007-03-20 18:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by chuchuchu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you can't keep your legs closed, don't get married.
2007-03-20 18:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your FI- fine be without me I don't care!
2007-03-20 18:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Newlywed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋