Hi..
Im 13 and I really like this girl... my parents know her parents really well.. and I know her quite well too I guess. She lives quite far away from me (about 2hrs) and she may move abroad in 1 or 3 yrs. Ive got her msn and I chat to her from time to time. On msn I think she likes talking to me and just sometimes calls me "weird" and stuff, but then says she's just kidding and sort of "makes up" if u know what I mean... Also, she talks to me quite a lot when my family and I visit her or she visits us.. and I think she really likes to do so. She always seems to smile when she looks at me as well. Does she like me, and do you think she likes me just as a friend or wants to be more than friends? And, should I tell her I like her, despite the fact that she may move abroad, and also because of what our parents might say if we get into a relationship?
Thanks alot...
2007-03-20 10:56:39 · 18 answers · asked by T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm a 13 year old girl, and i know where this girls coming from.
she either likes you as a friend and just wants to be close friends [girl's like to have guy friends]
or she really likes you. i think you should take a chance and tell her that you like her. she might like you, and she might not.
she might also start liking you that way. sometimes asking a girl out is like opening her eyes to how much she really likes you.
once i found out that this kid liked me. i thought that we were just friends, but a few weeks later i started to really like him. we never went out, but i still like him and i think he still likes me.
so i say ask her out. if she doesn't like you that way, tell her to keep it on the down low. don't let your or her parents know what happened...that would give them license to mock you for ever.
good luck lover boy ;-)
2007-03-20 11:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by SARB3AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can see where your parents r coming from when it comes to a relationship for u r only 13.That is the last thing u should be worrying about at your age.I would have to say to let things go with the flow don't do anything.Let things be just the way they r.Things seem to be going good as it is.U still have a few yrs b4 having a real relationship.I would just wait until she moves closer or u get a bit older for this might just not end the way u want.Your parents might not like the fact u have feelings for each other n not end up visiting them or vice versa.Keep things the way they r for now.U could ruin things if u go any further right now.Don't forget this is just the way I would deal with things.This is just a suggestion.Good luck n hope that helps.Bye 4 now
2007-03-20 11:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kid.
I'm 13, too.
I think she likes you.
it really seems like it, although you guys live apart. when she (if she does) move closer, I think she's going to talk to you a lot more.
and with your parents: eeeek. that sounds like; wow. I wouldn't tell her for a while. just in case she ends up not liking you (which is really unlikely, from the looks of it), what if your parents found that out? imagine how awkward would it be at your family get-togethers.
when she moves (I hope she does, for your sake), then I would tell her=]
(long-distance relationships don't work out too well)
2007-03-20 11:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ellers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok from my eexactt experiance from that i say you go ahead and ask like what have you got to lose? if she says no don't worriee if it will be awkward it all blows over in about a week anyway witch is good if you live far away and well most likely you won't visit her like everyday just like once a week right? so therefor it will already be a week and things would have already blown over...i feel like a sciantist...theeheee
anyway good luck and best of wishes,
*Melissaa
2007-03-20 11:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl. and i do that. alot.
but only to the guys i like.
im guessing she likes you.
alot. when your shy and smiley. that means she probally like u.
And if she lives that far away. then it probally wont work right.
normal relationships are together ALL the time. So it may not work. ive done it alot. and now me and him are best friends.
so dont worry. just some day get brave and ask her if she likes you and u think you like her. dont be afraid. good luck.
-katie...
2007-03-20 11:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Animal-obsesser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13...you want her to like you 'more' than that...what are you going to do...besides being together in a non sexual way. You are WAY too young to have sex. You are in Grade 7 or 8 man like you have your WHOLE life ahead of you to think about HEAVY relationships at THAT age. Get an Education...Hang out together, you don't have to have a heavy relationship. I didn't at that age.
2007-03-20 11:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too far apart and maybe further someday. Don't waste your youth waiting for anyone....enjoy what you have in front of you today and one more thing....you are TOO YOUNG to have a girlfriend, they are a lot of responsibility and take time away from guy things.
2007-03-20 11:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think oyu should cause you are young and someone else will come along soon and if you get into a relationship and she moves abroad long distance relationship s are hard and you are only 13,you'll find someone else to like
2007-03-20 11:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by alwayswondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel
take it slow and kindda hint that u like her ask her out see what her reaction is
If she smiles at u then smile back and give her the impression that u like her too.
2007-03-20 11:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be worth trying...tell her you really like her, she sounds nice..don'ìt worry about your parents, it's you that's important
2007-03-20 11:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋