my daughter is only 10 months old, but im so scared that when she grow up she will ask me why daddy's not here?my parents doesnt like his dad..because were both young...
2007-03-20 10:55:53 · 7 answers · asked by jay-ar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't worry to much about it. As long as you are providing a happy and secure home for your child you will probably find she wont even ask. And if she does just explain quickly and correctly and dont make a big thing out of it and she wont either. You might find that by the time she is old enough you probably will be a different person than you are now and your life will have moved on and over her father. I hope you are over him. It will open yourself up to meeting new guys and hopefully you will meet someone who will treat your daughter as if she is their own.
2007-03-20 11:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different ways for different scenarios. If it is possible/basically benign to do so, tell the truth. If it would be a heart scarring reason for the child, put the best possible spin on it, or omit pertinent details. Without knowing exactly why...you make it sound so permanent...I'm assuming this is a no-going-back type thing? In any case, if there is bitterness between u and the baby's father, try not to let it infect the innocent one. The last thing a kid needs is even more unnecessary baggage than they will get in any case.
2007-03-20 11:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by nigelski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're over 18, it's time to stop thinking approximately your self as a toddler being supported. it truly is a privilege you misplaced once you grew to alter right into a mom. you're actually the confirm helping a toddler. manage this like an person and additionally you will earn his comprehend over his anger. Be trustworthy and tell him devoid of the emotion, no crying or breakdowns. you desperate on your individual you have been person adequate to have intercourse and now it's time to instruct it. He maximum in all possibility won't kick you out, yet you are going to be arranged for it. stop seeking to different individuals to help you out, you and the daddy now could stand on your individual. in case you're under 18, then do in spite of you're able to do to stay alongside with your Dad till you're 18 and end college. it truly is quite your in simple terms determination, that or with the daddy or his family participants. you may end college to make any form of descent life for this toddler.
2016-12-19 10:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it too much. but you should tell her when she is an older teenager because as a teenager i would want to know why my dad didnt live with us, yeah maby there were a few bad decisions but she is your daughter and will love you anyway. if she asks when you think she is too young to handle the information to not lie to her about it, just dont tell the whole truth, because if you lie then it will make it just harder when truth time comes along.
2007-03-20 11:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to worry about things when they happen, not years before? That conversation is years down the road, and they sort of have their own way of working out. You will think of something at the appropriate moment.
2007-03-20 12:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about tell her anything . She is 10mth and she will accept the new guys in your life.
But if you really want to tell her the thruth I would wait until she is 18 before tell her . Tell her the whole truth about what happen. beside she will love you. you should not worry to much about it
2007-03-20 11:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by MOONBEAM7699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth when shes 16 to 18 and can handle it better. If you can.
Always protect her though.
Its up to you.
2007-03-20 11:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by oldster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋