I've been dating this guy for a year now and he still doesn't want to call me his girlfriend!!! Its so strange because I've met all of his friends (which he would not have done if he wasn't in to me) and he has told his parents about me too. But he will not say that I am his girlfriend!!! Sometimes he acts as if he is not in to me at all. We stopped talking for about two months and then he emails me out of the blue. Then when we meet up he grabs me and holds me for a long time (something that he doesn't do) but now he acts as if he doesn't care about me!!! He tells me that he doesn't care if I date other people but when he suspected me of dating someone else he got jealous (he tried to hide it though) and then he started ignoring me as if he was upset. I don't know what is up with him!! I've asked and he gives bullshit answers like "I don't know what your talking about" He is so cold at times. Should I just let him go? I'm confused!!!! Why is he like this?
2007-03-20 10:47:48 · 2 answers · asked by MalinaB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date this dude only if you like drama. He sounds like he does not want commitment. The balls in your court, play like you want to or don't play at all.
2007-03-20 13:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. Tell him straight up "This is your last chance if you really like me." If that doesn't work then he's probably not ready for a commitment to a girl or he's just holding you as a toy.
2007-03-21 18:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by a simple guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋