I'm not talking about obsessed stalker person. I mean like how you always want to talk to them or be with them. Know that their thinking about you and that they love you. I don't really see that as a bad thing, so why then is everyone so against it?
2007-03-20 10:44:48 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if both people are for it then it is a great thing, if not then it is weird and uncomfortable
2007-03-20 10:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every one needs a little space. Maybe you are a littel insecure. I don't mean not calling at all. But just give then a littel space. I know you must be madly in love and I do know how it feels. But being to clingly will push them away, it you have to make a mental note in your head the last ime you talked to him and just make your self wait at least several hours before calling againg. You really don't want this person to think he has you make him wonder what you are doing for a change.
2007-03-20 10:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not enough time in the world to always want to talk to, be around, and know what someone else is thinking were you are concerned. And if there is, you have too much time on your hands. Everybody needs some alone time, and if you are cutting into that then you are obsessing whether you want to admit it or not.
2007-03-20 10:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people like it some don't. Personally I don't, but I have a friend who's very into every guy she's with - ie spending every moment with him, only talking to her friends when he's busy, considering flying out to meet him on a lads weekend away because she "knew" he'd love to see her (even though the other guys' wives/girlfriends hadn't been allowed to go). Seems to be working fine for her. He seems to be just as into her as she is into him.
2007-03-20 11:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that for the most part it makes people (especially men) feel "smothered". I, personally, want to share my life with a man, but I want to have some of my own independance. Also, I prefer confident men that just know within themselves that I care about them without having to reassure them over and over and over. I have no problem saying how I feel, but I like someone that feels good enough about themselves that they feel worthy of the attention and that they will get it.
2007-03-20 10:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Andi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes people want their personal space and like to have time to themselves or with other people. Like if your guy plays a sport or is involved some other activity that doesn't mean that he doesn't like you as much and it's okay to talk to and hang out with other guys and girls and that goes for the BOTH of you!! Because being to gethjer all the time will eventually drive both of you crazy eventually even if not now!!!
best of luck and hope it all works out!!!!
2007-03-20 10:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is really a bad thing...no one wants to be with a person who is always saying what are you thinking, do you love me, I don't want to go anywhere without you - I miss you too much....see it all sounds so annoying and it is even worse when you are with someone like that.
2007-03-20 10:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that is what both people want, go for it. i find that i myself am sometimes clingy, but i have my days when i just want to be by myself. all in all though i like a guy who is a little clingy because it lets me know he's in to me and really wants to be with me. i don't like those "you go do your thing and i'll go do mine and i'll see you when i see you" kind of relationships. i like to at least talk to my guy at least one time a day. otherwise, what's the point of the relationship?
2007-03-20 10:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a balance
too much and you get very annoying
too little and it seems that you dont care
but there is a balance
and that is what you have to find
it is difficult
and that is part of what dating is all about
think about marriage
you do not want that person next to you every single second (although you may for a few weeks, months, years,)
but you dont want to never see them
again
there is a balance
2007-03-20 10:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being clingy cant be a bad thing. Think of the bloke who invented cling film, multi millionaire, worked for him!
2007-03-20 10:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It scares guys when you do that, because it makes you seem needy, and makes them want to run away. I think it is probably normal for women to be a little like that, I think we all do that to a degree. However, turn it around, if a guy did that with you, you'd probably feel smothered by it, too.
2007-03-20 10:50:13 · answer #11 · answered by Nanneke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋