I want to see my girlfriend but every time I walk over to her house I get nervous. Only time I see her is on the bus. I have never met her parents and I would half to ring the doorbell but Im to nervous. I love her very much and I want let something silly like this stop me. Everyday I say to her I will come over but I chicken out. Her parents may not like me. I want her parents to find out so that we can always be together.
2007-03-20 10:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by chris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you continue chickening out and not showing up when you tell your girlfriend that you are coming over, you will soon be losing your girlfriend.
2007-03-20 10:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...RELAX!!! just calm down, and tell yourself that there's nothing bad that they can do to you. the worst thing that could happen is...wait, there isn't a bad thing. she [your gf] is probably just like her parents. if she's nice, then she was probably raised by nice people.
what i do when i get nervous about something is i force my self to do it. say i'm in your situation and i really want to go over to my bf's house. i would force myself to walk to the door and ring the door bell. all you have to do then is stand at the door until someone opens it. there's not really any turning back [unless you want a rep. for being a ding dong ditcher].
you could also practice what to say if you do end up meeting the parents. do it in the mirror and then once again outside her house.
you can do it! good luck ;-)
2007-03-20 17:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by SARB3AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple call her before maybe if theres a park near by take walks . then when you and she feel ready talk about metting each others parents and then hanging out at houses. meeting the family is one of the scariest parts of a relatiopnship but in the end iusually doesnt even matter.
2007-03-20 17:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kelsey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your girlfriend, you shouldn't be scared... try to stand up face your fear and go to her house instead of being a chicken.... well first impression is not always what is expected to be, so maybe her parents would like you...or whats the point having a girlfriend?
2007-03-20 17:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine youself knocking on the house of their door and then try and do it and if that fails run straight into the door of their house so it makes a banging noise and then there is no going back.
2007-03-20 18:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by ENGLAND! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her and her and her parents over for dinner wors every time!!!
2007-03-20 17:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by lilbusch1116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋