I love 2 men but different kind of love.I'm in love with one and I live with the other one?
Is this situation could something to do with my need of afection?
2007-03-20 10:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Do both men make you feel affective towards them? What is it that is missing in one that you find in the other? Is one man you're fatherly figure, and the other not?What are you afraid of? A successful relationship? Did you come from a family that spilt up when you were a child? I think this situation goes deeper than your need for affection.
2007-03-26 09:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tagged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to decide in your heart and mind which of these men you want to be with. It is not fair on either man to have half of an unhappy you.
If you are in love with the man you don't live with then first you need to move out and find a place of your own. Spend a little time by yourself, with your thoughts and then take things slowly, from the start with the man you say you love. Don't rush things! good luck xx
2007-03-25 17:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would usually say to talk with the man that you live with to express your needs, but if you're saying that you're actually in love with another person, then the one that you're living with may not be the right one for you. Make sure that it's love and not lust before you make a mistake. Good Luck
2007-03-20 10:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definately. not only that, but it could also be that you honestly care about these two men, right?
my advice would be to try to be with the one you are truly in love with... if your feelings are not as strong for the other person, it is unfair for them and for you to keep him stringing along.
2007-03-20 10:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take my advice and love the one you are with. I almost blew a marriage of many years on something similar.
It isn't worth it.
2007-03-20 11:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i dont know what to tell you. wow.
2007-03-20 11:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋