he'll tell me to shut the **** up and i'm a ******* idiot and just mean stuff liekthat. He knows how upset i get and then says that hes sorry. But then it happens again. And again. To me, this is emotional abuse and not love. Also, today i was pretty upset about how he was treating me and he wouldnt even get off his computer game to talk to me. He refused to get off because he was "winning". He always treats me like that. And then i'll be like oh you dont even care about me and hell be like your right i dont. But then after when he relizes how upset i am he says he just said that because he was mad. I feel liek he doesnt care about me. When we dont fight thigns are fine. Just.. I dont know. I always care about how he feels and i put that first. He hurts me so much and he thinks sorry will fix it and yet he does it again. The other night he called me a ******* ***** and then apologized. Then today called me names again. What shoudl i do? I love him so much i want to fix this:-/
2007-03-20 10:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just talked to him for a second before he went to work. I askedhim if anything was bothering him and he said nope... nice to no he cares:-/
2007-03-20 10:42:45 · update #1
You two are not married yet and he already treats you that way. Imagine what will it be like after you marry him. What if then he decides he can punch you and then pretend he is sorry.
Why don't you give him a little test? Do you have a family somewhere in another state? Go visit your family and stay there quite some time. See if he starts to miss you. If he does not miss you, he does not love you.
2007-03-21 13:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by grigam2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not good! What he is doing to you is emotionally abusive. He won't change...If you got married it would get worse. You need to break up with him and find someone who will love you and treat you right!
Bless your heart
2007-03-20 17:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and if he doesn't want to, than say that stop doing what you are doing and let me talk to you and tell him how you feel about your relationship and tell him that you are very upset.
2007-03-20 17:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SAY YOU LOVE HIM AND I UNDERSTAND. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM. IT MAY BE REALLY HARD TO DO. EVEN WHEN STUFF GETS HARD YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT. THIS IS REALLY SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER. YOU SHOUD BREAK UP WITH HIM. IT DOES NOT SEEM LIKE HE CARES ABOUT YOU AT ALL. I AM SORRY TO SAY THIS. BUT IT IS THE TRUTH.
2007-03-20 17:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by sbfootball90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you to dump him because if he really did love you, he would most likely change. if you really want to be with him, tell him how you feel and tell him that if he does it again, its over. if he really likes you, he would change once he hears the phrase, "its over." if he doesnt, it shows that he doesnt like you that much.
2007-03-20 17:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out which is more the good times or the bad times, if it's the goon it's ok if it's the bad times then you need to move on.d times the
2007-03-20 17:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really could tell you what i think i would but i really don't know what to tell you the same things happening between me and my bf
2007-03-20 17:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋