Im 16, in high school and I have this friend who I REALLY love and I have no idea what to say to her. I met her at a church retreat and I liked her ever since. I love how she looks, I love how she talks and I love how she thinks. I have no how to ask her out. Im not sure if she likes me or not. Do I just come out and just say "I love you"?
And how do I know if she likes me or not?
Shes amazing and I dont want to loose her!!! She has a great personality and shes beautiful. I just dont know what to say to her.
2007-03-20 10:32:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all dont say "i love you" right away, because that could scare her away. give her little hints that u like her, by flirting with her a little. start to talk to her about how she feels about relationships and all that stuff. get to know her better, and let her get to know u better as well. hang out with her after school....first with a group of friends, and after a couple of weeks, see if she wants to hang out with u....just the 2 of u. if u do ask her out, dont tell her that u love her right away. give her time to adjust. good luck!
2007-03-20 10:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by *Gabby* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As rude as this first part may sound, slow down, its not love (yet) you've gotta give it mroe time.
Add her on msn, talk to her, see if you get a feel if she likes you or not. Then ask if she wants to go and hang out, you know in a group of friends. Again, see how you two interact.
If it just feels so good, as her if she'd wanna go out for a date, if all goes well, keep going out on dates.
Sorry hun, don't come out right away and say "i love you" you've gotta have a trial relationship before hand
2007-03-20 10:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say "I love you" because:
a) you dont know her that well and might freak her out
b) you two are not together and/or dating (yet)
c) you are in high school and dont know what love is
But I think you should go for it. Ask her out sometime to a movie or dinner or just hanging out at your house watching tv. In order to live life to its fullest, you must take chances, especially for love.
2007-03-20 10:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lose someone you don't have. You don't just go up and say I love you. You have to have a relationship. You need to get some smarts.
2007-03-20 10:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she talks to you, does she act like she's flirting? like smiling alot and laughing? does she seem to look prettier around you? or ask her straight upfront out. say that you had a crush on her for the longest and really would like to go out with her..tell her that she is a very kool person and you like everything about her
2007-03-20 10:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww that is so sweet...just dont go up to her and say "i love you" or she will think that you are wierd...you shouldnt care what she thinks about you...follow your heart...i mean like just ask her out...if she says no then im sorry okay...see ya
2007-03-20 10:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep hanging out with her and try to get closer slowly without bursting into major drama....and you will see if she is responsive or not.
2007-03-20 10:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ray354 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋