My brother dated this girl in high school for about two years and was totally in love with her. She really wasn't a very nice person, after high school, my brother went to boot camp and he set up a joint checking account for her and him. While he was away and sending her money, she began a new relationship with another guy and used my brother's money he was sending home on this new guy and she was sleeping with the new guy. When my brother came home, she dumped him for the new boyfriend and my brother was devasted. My brother is now 29 years old and he's still in love with her. He thinks she was the sweetest woman ever and that she was a beautiful person. He believes that her father didn't like him and made her have a relationship with another man, he doesn't want to blame her for what she's done. I just don't get it, how could you feel that way about someone who did that to you? How could you not think they were not responsible for their actions and blame someone else?
2007-03-20 10:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by foxfirefly81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's in denial. I would try to help him since he's wasting his life wanting someone who doesn't want him. Talk to him. Let him know that you're really worried about him. Regardless of if it was her fault or not, the fact is that she's not there now so he needs to move on.
2007-03-23 19:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you must feel very angry. But your brother is a grown man and you can´t make him change his mind . Just be there for him when he needs to talk to someone. But he should sit down and have a talk with his ex to trully realize what was the reason for dumping him.
2007-03-20 17:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by ?GlamourRock? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your problem. Everyone has to follow their own path. Be concerned and care but stay out of it!
2007-03-20 17:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother still has feeling for her and doesn't want to let go of her. he doesn't want to let go of the past..there are plenty of fishes in the sea...he should move on and date sum1 else
2007-03-20 17:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋