I love this guy. We started out casual, seeing other people. When we are together, it is like we are couple. Yesterday, he told me he is no longer seeing anyone else. Well neither am I. I don't know what to do. He did invite me to go to a movie with him Friday night. This guy has been hesitant toward relationships.
2007-03-20 10:15:04 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CONGRATULATIONS! its a first date. if you really love him as you say you do, then just enjoy. And if all goes well it could all lead up to a second date and who knows what that can turn into.
2007-03-20 10:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by mmeghannn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he made it a point to tell you he wasn't seeing anyone else now, there's a good chance he wants to be exclusive. I've been in a few casual relationships and every time those words have been said on either part, that's what it's meant. I wouldn't go for the gusto on him though, will freak him out.
My advice, just hang out like you normally do. He likes you for a reason and continues to see you for those same reasons. Maybe have a little more personal conversation. Not marriage and kids, but not the weather, ya feel me? There are other factors to take into consideration as well. Have you guys did the bedroom boogy yet? If not, this could be a tactic to engage in a vertical joyride.
Most important point, don't lose site of why you guys like hanging out. Never lose site of it.
2007-03-20 17:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by A.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. So he invited you...
Go. Take things slow though. Don't go and have sex or something like that!
Have fun at a movie with a friend. Then let the relationship blossom on it's own before you get to hasty.
2007-03-20 18:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by sleepy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the world turns, the sun comes up and then goes down. Why make the sun go down before coming up? Time brings about experiences and growth depends on reactions to those experiences. If he wants your heart, he will reach for it. Same goes for what's in front of your heart as well. Best to take the TIME to find out what's really on his mind before dropping coins in the wishing well.
2007-03-20 17:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rick W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like Jake13 said, He asked you out! Enjoy! I say, follow some good advice- Go out w/ him! Shucks! Anyways, you've got a friend, if you want, as well. My email is im1friend on yahoo, and my name is Kevin Barnard.
2007-03-20 17:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the issue? Go. Maybe he's been hesitant b/c he hasn't found the right person.
2007-03-20 17:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you want a relationship just ask him!!! Are you not seeing anyone else because you only want to see me?
2007-03-20 17:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by deeshamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out have fun see what happens,sounds like he wants to start something up.
2007-03-20 17:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him go to the movies
2007-03-20 17:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him! If you really want to be exclusive with him! Tell him!
2007-03-20 17:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by JD84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋