I think for all first time parents under 21, there should be a mandatory parenting class.?

Question

Now, i know this will never be passed as a law. This is what i chose to do for my editoral on for my English class. Please give me your opinions. Feel free to elaborate.

Don't get me wrong u guys i actually think it should be all ages,but for my report i had to take it down to 21; its more logical. So just tell me what u think about 21 and under.

I myself am 21.

I am glad u guys are responding but, ur not really reading my question. This is really not about age. As i said before my instructed asked to do a lower age group. I agree with every1 its not age. This is about parenting skills so, the main question is what do u think about mandatory classess.

Answer 1

It's not morals that is in question it's overall taking care of a baby. Young parents are not emotionally equipt to deal with a baby. People under 25 still tend to be horribly selfish and childish themselves. They are not in a mind set to take care of an all consuming baby. Parenting classes MIGHT help. Even that is questionable.

Answer 2

That is definitely a good idea but you're right, it will never be a law because there will be too many problems. Some people will choose not to go for one thing and some people might go but will do it kicking and screaming the whole way. I think it's a very good idea though for parents of any age. Even people who are planning to adopt should have to do it. Parenting is the hardest thing that anyone could do and it would be extremely helpful to have a class on it especially if you're a first time parent. Even people who'd think they'd make the best parents in the world could learn a little something. There's a class for everything else, why not parenting?

Answer 3

Have you ever heard of parents and grandparents?

There is a lot of wisdom in the elderly. Whether your parents are single or together the best thing is to talk with your mom or your grandmother.

I was a young mother. I was 19 when I had my first child. But this is the thing I want you to remember...there is absolutely no book that can educate a person on how to be a good parent. It takes life experiences. You were a kid once and you have learned a lot of life lessons. Incorporate what you know in your parenting skills. Now do not get me wrong you will make mistakes. With my first child I had patience and low tolerance issues. My mother helped a lot. My mother and father were practically raising my daughter for about 5 years. It was rough.

Answer 4

Funny. Age doesn't mean anything. Its sad that people think adding 10 years to a person's age makes them a better parent. It would be better to pass a mandatory class for all first time parents, irregardless of age. At least that way, everyone is getting the help. It makes me mad when people think anyone under the age of 21 is a irresponsible parent. Its like saying anyone that has a kid after the age of 40 is just being selfish. Or that if you have a kid after 35, its cause you couldn't find a man sooner. Seriously, can we just get rid of the age stereotypes already!!

Answer 5

In certain circumstances, first time parents under 21 would benefit from parenting classes, however I personally know of a lot of young people who are fine young parents as they have had very good role models in their own parents and have had a lot of responsibility as children growing up. All of these young people that I know come from large families and gradually took on responsibilities for helping to keep the house, cooking, child care, etc.

A question I pose to you in your paper is did you address who will determine the course material and how will these classes be financed?

Answer 6

I second that opinion. I am 26 and about to have my first child and I am learning everyday as to what I am about to go through. But I can atleast say I am past that younger attitude of I know what I am doing and no one can tell me something i dont already know. Having kids is more then just sex. Your life changes, no more clubing going out till the early hours of the morning. Kids these days are to ignorant. Thinking they know it all, they have no idea. I like to think of myself as being young as well, but I understand I have more to live after creating a life. A parenting class that would scare anyone 21 and under strait about what parenting is really about.

Answer 7

I agree! Some kids take babysitting classes, are CPR trained and have been babysitters for years. Even then they're in for a rude awakening when they baby is with them 24/7.

Parenting classes are such a good idea and a great way to meet other parents. Any experience and information will help eliminate anxiety and give them an idea of what they're in for.

Answer 8

It's maturity, and not age, that matters when it comes to parenting.
Just because someone is over 21, it doesn't mean that they are grown up enough to look after a baby. At the same time, there are a HUGE number of teen mums that would put the older ones to shame.

Answer 9

it dosent matter on the AGE!!! all parents need parenting classes. PERIOD! but!

Each child should be raised different from others because every child is different along with there attutuides.

so dont think Young mothers are stupid and need more help than mothers above 21+
Younger mothers may be young and need some advice and tips but they usually end up rasing there child fine, and half the time younger mothers become very close to there children other than older mothers.

Answer 10

I dont think so, l had a child at 21. I can honestly say there are no problems with my life, and the baby is now 1 year old. He is soo cute and happy. When i had the baby l was not married and now, the real father of the baby is my new fiance! I am having no money problems, and very proud of what l have accomplished over the last couple of years.
.....But then agian, everyone has their own opinions.

Answer 11

I have to say I was very offended by the comment made by karr1213. I had my baby last sept. at 21 years old and feel that I am very responsible and not at all selfish. My husband and I are the same age and our whole world revolves around our daughter. Not all 21 year olds are as responsible as us, but age has nothing to do with it. It is plain ignorance to catagorize all 21 year olds as selfish and irresponsible. okay I just had to get that off my chest!