im really shy and hav a low self esteme im not really ugly but im not the prettist either. anyway i fanci this boy an d hes fit, funny and soooo out my league. what do i do!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 10:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST keep your clothes on. Do not lower your self for him
2007-03-20 10:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st Do a self make over what ever you could afford to do start out with a long bath then do your best hair style everyday you'll need to keep trying to improve your looks but i must say this mite not be for the boy of your intrest you mite find someone else but if you keep up your appearance eventually you'll get notice as well make sure you have a wonderful personality it'll take you a long way but keep your head up in life you have too take the good with the bad good luck...
2007-03-20 17:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Toni H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find ways to work on your self esteem. Just from guys I've known, the guys that are usually attracted to girls with low self esteem are usually guys that are looking for a weaker person- & you don't want that. You need to work on yourself before thinking about getting someone else to love you. So the question is, why do you feel this way??? Is there some reason you don't think you are worthy of someone - no one is really out of your league. Since I don't know you personally, I don't know what advice to give to work on this, but that is where you need to start. Talk to someone who knows you well or do something that you've always wanted to to make you feel better about yourself. I think martial arts is a good way to boost confidence, but whatever it is, that's a more important place to start. Most guys are going to respond to someone who respects themselves.
2007-03-20 17:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by stepss1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is beautiful in their own way my dear.
You need to work at getting over your shyness and low self-esteem.Simply try talking to him and you may get a surprize.
Why would you say he's out of your league? Everyone has friends of all kinds.Fit,funny,rich,poor it doesn't matter. We're all human and should all get along together.
This boy may enjoy having you as a friend if you give him a chance.
Make the move.Be polite and friendly and see what happens.Never hurts to try.
Good Luck to you.
2007-03-20 17:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok lay off the sugar first of all and second guys dont like girls that have low self esteme so get that up!!!! be confident and strong ur a woman be proud!!!!! just talk to him whats the worst that can happen he will say i dont like u so what? theres a million other guys in this world!!!!! good luck
2007-03-20 17:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trish,
How are you, my name is Tricia too, first of all get yourself together and begin to LOVE YOURSELF, you cant expect anyone to love you or care for you if you dont care for and love yourself, beauty is only skin deep so dont worry about if someone else thinks your beautiful or not, what matters is that you KNOW BEAUTIFUL...
Now with that said this guy that you fancy surely isnt out of your leauge NO ONE IS remember that...Go up to him and introduce yourself, it couldnt hurt and start a friendly conversation, I'm sure things will roll right along....
Have confidence in yourself, you can do this....Good luck....
2007-03-20 17:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by cranberry_juice33 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's out of your league because you put him there. Get a grip. Take some pride in yourself. You're as good if not better than a lotta people out there!
2007-03-20 17:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't be shy. don't worry he'll like you, unless he has a girlfriend or likes someone else. (don't even think of going out with him if thats the case!) just be yourself, everyone is cool if you get to know them (except posers they suck all around). i'm sure he'll like you personally i'd rather go out with a normal girl who i have stuff in common and is herself with rather then a girl that's pretty but i have nothing in common with and who isn't original and is obviously playing an act. slutty isn't the way to go either.
2007-03-22 17:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by HeWhoRunsWithScissors 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen i am shy too.i am not the ugliest and not the prettiest either.and the sad truth is i have a low self esteem.try talking to him if he rude get over him.don't call it love either u don't know if he like u either.plus who care if he is not in your league if u like him talk to him.if it was me i would have stayed in a corner not speak to him at all.
2007-03-20 17:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and upfront with him. Send him a letter and explain to him your feelings or call him and start up conversation. Best to be person to person
2007-03-20 17:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋