my boyfriend cheated on me an am back with him but am not sure i want to stay with him.
2007-03-20 09:58:31 · 29 answers · asked by yeah&yay1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a saying , once a cheat , always a cheat, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. Dump him and find someone else, respect yourself.
2007-03-20 10:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on before. I dumped him. He wanted to get back together with me, even said he wanted to marry me. But, I couldn't trust him anymore. I just had this feeling that he would do it again, thinking that I took him back once, I would do it again. To me, that is the one thing you don't do to someone. If he doesn't love you, then he should have just broken up with you instead of cheating on you. By cheating, that just shows how weak he is and I think it could happen again. But, in the end, it is all up to you. If you think you can trust him and don't think he will do it again, then give it another try. Don't let other people's opinions get to you. You do what you think is right for you.
2007-03-20 10:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Katie R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been in your situation and i can tell you the best thing for you to do is to get out of the relationship. If he cheated on you once and you just took him back no consequenses then the odds are he's going to do it again because he thinks he can get away with it. I let that go on in one of my past relationships for like 3 years and i finally got tired of it. I wasted 3 years of my life when i could have been happy with someone else. ITs not worth it and if your already having doubts about the relationship you should just get out of it.
2007-03-20 10:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun,
Im sure you love him to death, but he's not good for you.
Im sure he tells you he does love you, but its not the words, its what he does to show his love for you...and him cheating you is just like saying
"I dont love you"
and plus if he really did, this never would have happened in the first place. When you love someone, you love them and only them...no one else...so i really think its time to let go ok.
I know its hard, trust me, im having a relationship crisis too,but you deserve better....
there are plenty more guys out there
2007-03-20 10:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by SkIttLeS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always decided once a cheater all ways a cheater. You need to leave his *** and not look back. Just tell him that since he has cheated on you, you can't trust him. Good Luck!!
2007-03-20 10:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think he will do it again I suggest u get out of that relationship and quick! Why did you go back with him after he cheated on you?
2007-03-20 10:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mandie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's still looking for "something" and is not ready for a relationship and you should dump him as you have lost your trust in him and you will always be wondering if he's cheating on you.Good luck
2007-03-20 10:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by sasyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what made him cheat on you in the first place. Then dump him, and learn from his mistake.
2007-03-20 10:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by kashallgonna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to forgive him and allow him to regain your trust, then stay with him, but if you cant get over the fact, then I would say leave him, but theres nothing wrong with continuing a respectable friendship.
2007-03-20 10:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop it like a hot plate, and sweep the shards under the carpet
2007-03-20 10:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋