why are girls friends with the nice guys but always date the jerks, i mean should i just become a jerk?
2007-03-20 09:56:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The young ones are with jerks, cause they are rebelling against their parents. I did the same. As they mature, they see the difference, and will look for men with quality.. Do not change if your a nice guy. Just be patient and she will come along,,..just wait and see.
2007-03-20 10:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
women date jerks because of what is called the "beauty and the best" complex... Women have a secret (or no so secret) desire to change a man into a loving and caring man even when he is a jerk or even a murderer!!!
That is why there are so many women who were Richard Ramirez fans. He killed, raped and tortured 17 people in california in the 70's and is one of the worlds most famous serial killers and proclaimed 'Satanist'. He is on Death Row at this time and still gets 'love letters' from women all over the world!!! weird huh!!
Yup we are some crazy bi*ches!!
dont worry tho.. the good guys always win in the end!! so if you are nice one dont change... a great girl who appreciates you will be right around the corner!! :)
Good luck
2007-03-23 03:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, be yourself. There are not enough nice guys left in the world for that reason. There are women out there who appreciate the good guys.It's not the kill for some, but the thrill of the chase. What better chase than with a jerk who seems untouchable. I don't know why but I had that problem when I was younger. I always seemed to be attracted to the "bad boys". Now I have a 16 year old daughter who is headed in the same direction. We eventually grow up and learn though!
2007-03-20 10:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!! Don't become a jerk! Ladies just like the thrill. They will come to their senses and get over them soon. Some girls are looking for nice boys and if there aren't any then what will they do? As soon as you become a jerk, all the girls will want nice boys instead. Listen to me and don't become a jerk!
2007-03-20 09:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by katkgood 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely don't start acting like a jerk! :) I think girls like men to give them a challenge at times. And the thing with the jerks is that they know how to play the game...they say the right things when they screw up. But don't worry....nice guys don't always finish last!
2007-03-20 09:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some women feel this weird need to "love him better" when it comes to jerks. They think their love will change him into a decent human being, so they make a jerk their project. It's also a way for these women to avoid their own issues because they focus on someone else's problems.
2007-03-20 09:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to figure this one out. I was married to a jerk!!! And, have dated a jerk since the separation. I don't know. I hope my attraction changes soon.
2007-03-20 10:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try it and see. No, you either are a jerk or you're not. There will come a day when those girls would give everything to find one decent truthful man they could trust. Guess that means you win in the end. I love my guy because he didn't sleeze around with every girl that wanted him to. He's special and just for me.
2007-03-20 10:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women/girls date jerks because they made the wrong choice. That happens.
2007-03-20 09:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never dated a jerk
2007-03-20 09:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋