why is he doing this?

Question

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh my cherelle that i know.

Answer 1

You sound a bit young. How about this? Instead of having all of these messengers going between the two of you, giving wrong and mixed messages.Talk to the boy yourself. It doesn't take much to just strike up a conversation. That way, if anything comes out of the relationship, you may become great friends. That way eventually you will know how he feels about you. You should be friends first anyway. Who knows you may not even fancy him, if you got to know him better.

Answer 2

personally i think his mate likes you but yeah sounds like the guy you like is interested.why dont you ask him if the two of you do something together just as mates? then see how it goes. from what you said i think he wants to ask you but has a fear of being rejected...hope this helps

Answer 3

kids...