what can i do if i love this guy but i have a boyfriend! I love my boyfriend to but somehow i have very strong feelings for my friend and he loves me too. I just dont know what to do
2007-03-20 09:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jillian L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta make up your mind or let it go. Being torn between two people is never helpful for anyone. Ask yourself this- what is it in your Friend that you prefer over your boyfriend? What about your boyfriend's qualities that you can't find in your Friend? It could be you have a physically intimate relationship with the boyfriend and an emotionally intimate relationship with the Friend. If that's the case, you need to be honest with yourself and your Friend about it. Especially if he loves you more than just as a friend...
2007-03-20 09:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by TooMuch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying, you love your boyfriend and you're lusting after another guy. So the question is do you really love your boyfriend enough to stay with him. Or is the lust so strong for this other guy that you are willing to throw everything away to be with him. That is a tough situation to be in, but I would stay with the one that I love. You should to.
2007-03-20 09:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will love somebody and be different than for them. If he does not love you a similar way you adore him...then what's the element in loving him? why provide him a good form of your love while he do not even deserve a single piece of it. you have have been given slightly one on the way and that's the sole element that desires all your love.. recover from him and don't permit him harm you lots. while the toddler's born, permit him pay newborn help...he will in no way replace, as quickly as a cheater, consistently a cheater..You deserve plenty extra useful than him. i'm hoping you're making the main magnificent determination..reliable success.
2016-11-27 01:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from your boy friend and go out with the other guy and decide from there-there is nothing that any of us can say to help you decide it is your heart that can only help you decide-but decide fast before you lose them both especially if your boyfriend finds out about the other guy and the other guy is sick of waiting so don't be too selfish trying to have both it is one or the other--
good luck!!
2007-03-20 09:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by ang925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date both of them!
or take time to yourself to really think about it. is liking or being with your friend worth breaking up with your boyfriend? Is he worth it? will he be better for you? do you see a future with your boyfriend or your friend? ask yourself these questions before you make any rash decisions. if you're still confused, maybe you should be alone for awhile until you can really figure it out.
2007-03-20 09:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a selfish person.. The only person u love here is yourself.. No one can love 2 people at one time.. Get real.
2007-03-20 09:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋