a few months ago, i cought my bf cheating on me...and my best friend justin was there for me, then i thought i was falling for him...and i guess i was, now im going out with im, justin is my best guy friend and it doesnt even feel weird to go out with him...until he started getting...well...abusive, i think-i mean the other day he punched me in the stomach, and knocked the breath out of me, and i ask him why he did it and he said cause i talked to much about this other guy, i never had said a word about, and i told him that and he did it again, how can he change so fast like this...im scared this will get worse.
2007-03-20 09:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH HELL NO you should never let a guy hit you and if he does dump him right away of course if he does once hes going to do it again but if you decide to stay with him you better watch out because i know what im telling you from experience most guys are the same hes the type of guys that hits girls to feel tough or just because they feel like it please just dump him........
2007-03-20 09:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately tell someone! Once a hitter, always a hitter. It sounds like the begining of your relationship started off wrong at the get go. Also, this dude gots some straight problems for hitting a girl! He shouldn't even hit you if he has a reason. Jail sounds like a better place for him. I would like to mention what I have done to guys that hit girls, but someone might get offended. Also "STAY AFRAID"!! If he has hit you once , he will do it again!!
2007-03-20 16:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Skipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF HOW OLD ARE YOU!? SECOND HE HAS NO BUSINESS PUNCHING YOU AND HARD ENOUGH TO KNOCK THE WIND OUT OF YOU!!!! OH H3LL NAW!! YOU BETTER GET RID OF THIS GUY QUICK. PRETTY SOON THAT PUNCH WILL BE AIMED AT YOUR LIP, THEN EYE..AND YOU GET WHAT I'M SAYING?? HE WILL GET WORSE AND I HOPE YOU TAKE THE ADVISE OF MOST OF THE PEOPLE IF NOT ALL OF THEM ON THIS ANSWER BOARD AND DROP THAT DUDE.. OTHERWISE YOU'LL BE BACK ON HERE IN ACOUPLE OF MONTHS ASKING US" SO HE BUSTED MY LIP, AND GAVE ME A BLACK EYE LAST NITE, SHOULD I LEAVE ?" go now and don't look back.
2007-03-20 16:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by candyred1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sweetheart the best thing for you to do right now is get out while you can it only gets worse .theirs other ways to handle a situation like you guys have about this other guy and that's communicating . this is only the way he know how to handle things is to be is be abusive so walk away now,don't make excuses for he's terrible behavior .
2007-03-20 17:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by raaunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only gonna get worse, believe me. You need to break up with him, get a restraining order, and never talk to him again. Unless you eventually want to wind up dead in a ditch.
2007-03-20 16:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will get worse--if you let it. Put a stop to it immediately. Let him know hitting is out of bounds. Get away from him!!!
2007-03-20 16:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are insecure jerks trust me i am one!!! Dont let this dude hit you EVER it doesnt get better it gets worse. If you want to save your freindship tell him he needs to get help!!
2007-03-20 16:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by deeshamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to somebody maybe the police and see what can be done. Also real guys dont hit girls
2007-03-20 16:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Secret W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch out for this guy.
No one should ever hit you for talking about something/someone.
2007-03-20 16:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his ***. He hasn't changed, hes always been this way. He just finally decided to show this side of him.
2007-03-20 16:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋