I cant help it..he has lied to me before and he probably cheated..he denies it..I will not stop as long as i have his pin #...
2007-03-20 09:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you just want to fight!!!! Do you really think spying on him and checking his phone is going to enhance the trust in your relationship? You might as well look for a new beau!!!!!!!!! But you probably wont be happy anyway because you have an insecurity issue!!!Sorry!!!
2007-03-20 09:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just stop seeing each other. You can't have a decent relationship without trust. If you are to the point that you have to check his voicemail everyday, not only does that show your insecurity and your lack of trust but it's going to end up driving him away. Maybe you should part ways now before you both end up blowing up at each other. It's possible that you can walk away and still be friends at this point.
2007-03-20 16:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay. I know this may sound a little gay, but you've either got to trust him or let him go. A relationship can't be good with lies between it. If he's hurt you before, chances are he might not have changed. You should accept him the way he is or tell him straight out what you think. My opinion: Dump him. There are PLENTY of other guys who are fun and care about you. You don't deserve to have to question whether he's the kind of guy you want. Thanks for the question. I'm happy to answer!
2007-03-20 16:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by MISS~SPARKLE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to do something similar too and I know if I had his pin # back then I would have done the same thing. You're going to drive yourself insane with obsession. It's up to you to stop what you're doing and confront your own insecurities or let go of him if you can't trust him. It's hard to do. I know it is.
why are you looking for evidence of his infidelity? You've convicted him before he's even committed the crime.
Ask yourself this, if there is no trust in your relationship, what are you doing in it?
lots of luck to you...
2007-03-20 16:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by KOI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to turn yourself into a headcase, if you're not there already. Is having a boyfriend worth all the B.S. You're never going to trust him as long as you are going through his s**t! You might as well end it now, cause the clock is ticking on this relationship anyway.
2007-03-20 16:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him, leave him. You can't even be friends with someone if you don't have trust, much less boyfriend and girlfriend. You are what the courts call a STALKER. It is wrong, one day you will see it.
He will see it, and the officer will see it...when your boyfriend says, she is not suppose to be within 100 feet of me officer.
Get help, if you don't trust him, break up with him. Don't be a stalker.
2007-03-20 16:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if you feel like you have to do those kind of things then you probably don't need to be with him.
2007-03-20 16:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on because you will never trust him. He doesnt seem like he is trust worthy so dont waste your time trying
2007-03-20 16:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him...he lied 2 u? probably cheated? dont invade his privacy like tht...hes not even worth it...
2007-03-20 16:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by BasketballPlayinchica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated before he is doing it again
2007-03-20 17:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋