There's This One Girl I Like, We've Been Best Best Friends For A Year And A Bit And We Did French Kiss One Night. She Was Slightly Over Controlling And I'd Do Anything She Said Or She Would Hit/Kick Me. If Anyone Needs I'll Give More Details But Do This Make Me A Lesbian If I Only Like One Girl?
2007-03-20 09:33:35 · 27 answers · asked by lil_chaz_2k7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I Don't "love" Guys. I Like Them. I'm Not Sure If My Interest In Girls Is To Do With "Hormones" But I Do "love" Girls. And Yes I Love Quotation Marks =]
2007-03-20 09:39:13 · update #1
We aren't really allowed to go to each others houses now but we still see each other in school. She has many boyfriend over the past few months and my friends say shes probably trying to cover up sexuality. She has already had sex with guys (apparently) and we're only 13. She says she's bi because because she like kissing girls but thats not true. I can see myself wih a girl but she can't (or so I know). Im confused weither she likes me or not as im getting mixed signals.
2007-03-20 09:45:38 · update #2
no, sounds like you were just having fun. But don't let others make you do something that you wouldn't like.
2007-03-20 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are a lesbian you will soon find out. Sounds like this girl is just over-powering you and lots of young girls practice such stuff with their girlfriends when they're gutsy. That doesn't make you a lesbian or her one either.
If you start watching the girls at school and not the boys, then that's your cue to make some adjustments for the big coming-out party. If you are a lesbian, you will be the first one to know!! And it's okay and normal. It will make your life much harder though so keep your mouth shut depending on where you are and who you are talking to. Lots of people are uneducated and ignorant about gays. Good Luck!!
2007-03-20 16:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer isn't probably what you are looking for but, this is one of those questions you are best figuring out on your own. Sexuality is a weird thing and it can be confusing with other people (not to mention our sex obsessed culture) telling you what to think. In the end only you really know the truth about what you like and dislike.
2007-03-20 16:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by keith s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like guys? Would you like to be with a guy sometime in the future? If you answer YES then no you are probably just Bi-Sexual and that is fine. If you have no interest in guys then yes you are probably a lesbian but that is fine also!
Good luck and enjoy life!
2007-03-20 16:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be a lesbian, but you could also just really love your friend...a few years back i thought i was a lesbian because i loved my friend so much that it almost transcended sexuality...but there are a few questions you can ask your self...are you more attracted to women than to men?...do you find women in general attractive?...or is it just this friend?in the end, it's something you have to figure out within yourself...as for her hitting you and kicking you that's not okay you shoulddn't let anyone abuse you male or female. lover or no. don't let anyone push you around...you should act like the strong woman you are...
2007-03-20 16:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by tremuloustatterdemalion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a true friend, if she hits you when you are not doing what she wishes. You probably shouldn't have kissed your friend, if you like guys, because that gives guys the wrong message.
If you ask me, SHE is the lezbian, not you. Because if SHE want's to kiss you and other things that she should be doing with a man, than she probably is.
I think you need to stop being friends if this is what it leads to.
2007-03-20 16:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might be reading more into it. it's natural to have feelings for your best friend, and lots of best friends kiss like that (once or twice). that doesn't necessarily make you a lesbian. ask yourself if you find other girls attractive, if you can see yourself having a relationship with a girl, if you want to be with a girl. you may just be confused or caught up in the moment.
2007-03-20 16:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends do you like guys too? you might have a serious case of Biness you probably need to see a doctor.
Jk about the doctor.
P.S Everyone one has bi in them so if you have to many drinks stay away from me!!!!
2007-03-20 16:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not a lesbian, you are just stupid for letting someone control you. If she was your true friend she wouldn't make you do things. You may be bi but not a lesbian. I couldn't be her friend, she would get her @ss kicked!
2007-03-20 16:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you prollly dont really really like her and like i know so many people that have made out with girls so its just not you but yeah like everyone in my school like looks at each others butts and stuff like that so we arent lesbian but maybe you are just really good friends
2007-03-20 16:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really, you just like her so much that you give in to her demands. Maybe you're just curious or potentially bisexual. I don't know about the hitting though, sounds like you are submissive and she's dominating. Careful with that.
2007-03-20 16:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋