There is this one kid, that I never really talked to before, I thought he liked me so I started to like him back but now I can't tell. He is very sarcastic and can be mean but he just teases me. So i don't know if he likes me or hates me. Here are some of the things he does 1) He quotes everything I say 2) Makes fun of everything I say weather it's funny or not 3) Tells people the things I say 4)Asks me whats wrong if im not talking 5) Complimented me on my hair 6) Asks me if im going to the gym and work out with him 7) Looks at me 9) Points his body towards me
Now like i said he can be mean: he told me to move over one time because i was too close, told me im stupid, and makes fun of the things i say. SO what do you think... and what should I do
2007-03-20 09:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you tell he actually likes me instead of hating me...he is sarcastic so maybe he is making fun of me to be mean...i can't tell... i laugh when he makes fun of me so i guess he knows that i don't take it personal although i once told him i hated him and i tell him to stop being me and he just says stop talking then
2007-03-20 09:47:08 · update #1
He hates u..what he does is nasty.
2007-03-27 11:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an excerpt below from a newsletter from a dating guru; a guy that knows much of whats going on between a woman and a man and how attraction is created
This guy you like or likes you and is acting all funny and weird and is doing all this stuff and dosn't know that he is really trying to create attraction ....he's just doing what comes naturallly to him and a lot of guys dont do this, so it's probably weird to you...bc you're not "gettin it"
basically he is trying to find something to make you "feel" attraction to him by doing one thing and it desn't work so he tries the opposite thing and it doesn't work....hope you understand...
and...do you like him or not is all you have to ask yourself and hit him in the arm or gut or laugh something so he'll know what to do next and maybe ask you to go out with him or do something together..!
from the newsleter....
"I believe that when a man is Cocky & Funny, he
triggers a primal response inside of a woman that
creates an instant emotional ATTRACTION.
This is because women come "pre-wired" with an
internal template of what comprises a desirable
mate, and a set of emotional trigger buttons that,
when pushed, create that powerful emotional
response called ATTRACTION that compels her to
mate with the man who triggers it.
Most men have no idea that this mechanism
exists or how to trigger it, so they do
traditional "nice guy" things like buying dinners,
gifts, and flowers... and giving women
compliments... and calling them all the time
(which usually have the OPPOSITE of the desired
effect when used too much, and too early on).
2007-03-28 05:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! He definitly likes you!
All the signs show! *hehe*
He may be mean to you but maybe it's because he's like trying to be as obvious as he can and you're not doing anything to like "make a move" so maybe he's just getting annoyed. Maybe that's why he's sometimes mean and stuff. Oh...and the part where he was like "move over cuz your too close to me," he probably said that cuz he doesn't like being too close cuz he's like really prude or something. But all the signs show!
YES! He likes YOU!
2007-03-28 16:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf used to do the same things to me before we got together so he does like you (and wants to go out) so whenever he makes fun of you make fun of him,etc and dont get annoyed that is guys way of telling girls that they have a crush on them and i am sure he will get the message and ask you out.
Good Luck
2007-03-28 08:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. I've been in this same situation...and the guy now has another girlfriend. But that might not be the case here...the only thing i can think of to tell you, is try to become his friend, and if he treats you like crap, then hes just a jerk, but if hes nice to you, then well...continue your friendship, and after a little while, it might grow into something more. But just try to be friends with him at first...
2007-03-20 16:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by wendyerin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like he likes you and is just teasing you a bit.
Try teasing him back a little bit. Don't take small things to heart too much.
2007-03-28 15:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he definetly like you and just doesnt know how to vent his feelings he wants to be nice but might be afriad hell be made fun off accsept his gym invite in privite if u like him!
2007-03-20 16:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can tell if he likes you or not he usually starts acting differently towards you if not he probaly might ask you different things as if to go on a date or something
2007-03-28 16:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by ronisha p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and he is been a punk and does not want to tell you waht's up..do what i did, act like you are not paying attetion to him or don't have the time of the day then see what he does..boys love what they can't have..totally ignore him, roll your eyes when he says something, show him you don't care and see what happens..he likes you but doesn't know how to approach you.then if he acts like he does like you..accept his gym invite
2007-03-20 16:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a white trash match made in heaven
2007-03-27 21:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by hillbilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask him? Atleast ask him why he is so mean to you.
2007-03-28 16:41:14 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋