i have a close friend and i really get along with him.... the problem is... i think i am falling for him,, my friend says he likes me well some people said that as well but the think is i am so confused and i´ve being thinking about that and i dont wanna fall for him cause i don't wanna lose his friendship
help!!!!
2007-03-20 09:25:00 · 14 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are confused then dont listen other people.. Give it times and keep hang out with him and let a gut hit you that the fact its worth to ask him out and give it a chance. Inform him that you do not want to mess up friendship if you guys are not fit for relatioship. Always try, it wont hurt.
2007-03-20 09:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel when the time is right. Tell him, " You know you are kind of growing on me, and it's not so bad, and my feelings for you are growing too, kind of like an old pair of comfortable tennis shoes" that should keep it in the middle.
Then if he feels the same way, that would be the first step then he would respond with something like, " You know I feel the same way!" Let's spend more time together and be closer friends.......
2007-03-20 16:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by SYLVIA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and you want to sleep with him, then have at it. If you like him but don't want to sleep with him, he's just a friend and you'll need to have the "friend talk." Which sucks if the guy actually likes you, but if you're not into him physically, then better to rip the bandaid off then leaving him in limbo. Hope this helps!
2007-03-20 16:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you fall for someone doesnt mean you have to give up that friendship, after all a healthy relationship is built off friendship. You have to be friends before your lovers.
2007-03-20 16:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!! its screaming out to be had.. as a boy myself he'd love to go out with you hes scared bout how ud react trust me if u suggest it then watch his face light up :)
Friendships can b rebuilt nd im sure if it didnt work ud stay friends uve gota go for it or ull have a cud av been moment
Goodluck :)
2007-03-20 16:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes falling for a friend is not a bad thing. just go with the flow. don't worry about what comes next.
2007-03-20 16:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to happen it will. Don't change things. Also, try
listening to your heart and not your friends. Your gut will tell
you if and when it is right or not. Good luck
2007-03-20 16:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by mistidyidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that before and im still friends with all of them...It doesnt always happen, it just depends on the way ppl. break up
2007-03-20 16:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~small town girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg girl your in a deep hole. but if u listen to heart and your gut feeling, u will know if u like him more as a friend-or a bf.
2007-03-20 16:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that he feels the same way bout you tell him the way you feel but if you don't try to take things slow to find out if he likrs you. if you have another concern let me know and i well help you anytime
2007-03-20 16:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by tavia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋