This guy who I'd been dating for 2mths and I performed oral on each other. He then stops calling me. I called him twice to find out what happened but he never returned my calls. That was about 2 mths ago. I recently bumped into him and I asked him what happened and he told me he didn't enjoy the moment we had. It was my 1st time performing oral, but I didn't tell him that. I thought the next time we did it I would ask him to show me what he liked, I didn't expect him to run away and hide. Was I wrong for expecting him to act like an adult? He is 24. Why didn't he just talk to me about it? We probably could've worked it out.
2007-03-20 09:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like he's pretty immature or just used you to "get some" :( ..he might have just said he didnt like the way you performed because he was a bit intimidated and paniced when he bumped into you
2007-03-20 09:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't want to talk darlin. He was probably just using you to get sex and since it was your first time, that made it worse. Don't put pressure on yourself because he was a jerk. Think of this as a lesson well learned. Relationships are full of heartache, using, and abusing. There's nothing we can do about it. I do believe he was probably just using you or he liked you, but sex is a bonus and in this case it obviously sucked so he went to look for something better. It's alright though, not your fault. Don't go out and try to get better at it either. Good luck
2007-03-20 09:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wuuuut how old are you? i think you shud findhim, sit him down, and talk to him
2007-03-20 09:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by captinstunna2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋