Allright say you have a boy friend and you got pregnat do you think you should just get married cause your pregnat cause alot of people do that and i dont get it?
2007-03-20 09:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no just because you 2 got pregnat dosent mean you love eachother but a kid should have involvement of both parents in his/her life
2007-03-20 15:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my good friends did this and he just finished with he's divorce. A baby is not going to rescue two people from the problems they bring to each other. Why people think this way, I will never know. Now if the relationship is going well and you just happen to get pregnant, then I guest that would be the next gradual step. I would still take my time though!
2007-03-20 09:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have bf of 4 yrs we talk about marriage & kids we've pretty much established that we will end up married but if I got pregnant 2morrow I would not marry him. I am a firm believer in - I want him to want me so I need my bf to marry me or ask before an oops occurs & if we happen to get pregnant before we get married we will be bf & gf 4 ever. This is not for everybody its just my personal preference.
2007-03-20 09:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok as long as your not applying him. tell him which you have become over a boyfriend and talk with him approximately it. if its just to recover from him then do not do it. talk with the different guy too it could have been a foul mistake, do not forget 2nd possibilities are high now and lower back reliable. your boyfriend from the summer season looks like a outstanding individual if he enjoyed you and cared approximately you and became nonetheless pals with you once you or he broke eachothers hearts. ask him how he have been given over you, in step with hazard he has suggestion or is conscious some the explanation why your different boyfriend might have cheated on you. reliable success. stay real pals which includes your previous previous boyfriend!
2016-11-27 01:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by fonner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No people should never get married just because they are having a child together.
If you wanted to do it anyway, and having the baby just sped up the process sure...but if you don't love them, or want to be with them forever then no.
2007-03-20 09:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, and this is from the guys perspective....it has to be love! just getting a girl pregnant is not a sign of manhood or that he can take care of all the financial issues that come up! It has to be a joint decision and hopefully one that is entered into happily by both parties!
good luck!
2007-03-20 09:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be worse, you could have a girl who is married cheats on her husband gets pregnant then has to get a divorce now she broke up with the man she had the baby with. Ya thats my sister! Euggh, makes me sick!
2007-03-20 09:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one does that anymore. Stay single and file a palimony suit.
2007-03-20 09:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Point..........If you truly love him......O K ...........
If you don't love him..Not.. OK.........
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2007-03-20 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Melvin S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋