I hardly ever get to spend time with my boyfriend!! I love him so much but his parents either are in a bad mood or are tired and he's not allowed at me house!! I want to spend time with him but it seems like he doesn't even try to get this parents to say yes!! All I want to do is see him outside of school!! We've been together for 2 years and I think we should spend more time together!! It's hard to have a relationship if you don't get to see the person that much!!
2007-03-20 09:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Preggo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it...share your views and develope an oppinion with him.
find ways to get around it,
have him be a little sneaky with his parents. sure its a little troublesome but in the long run it should definately be worth it
2007-03-20 09:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dakota W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be careful! Not to put you down or anything but if he doesn't feel the same way about you (hopefully that's not the case) he will think your clingy and needy. But other then that you guys should talk. Communication is key. Tell him how you feel and if he really cares he will try to figure something out. In the end if both of you guys put in the effort you will both be spending a lot of time happily together.
2007-03-20 16:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Spike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to "tell you something" with out actually saying it. If a guy is "unavailable" as often as he seems to be with you, and he doesn't seem to want to change it to improve the situation, then I would be worried that he's "just not that into you." He'll use you when you're at school, but after school, where is he? Are you sure he's at home when he says he is? Or is he just saying that and is out with friends or another girl?
2007-03-20 16:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Grinch 67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i feel your pain. ive been trying to keep a similar relationship going. my advice is that you make the best of your time in school. maybe skip out on a lunch break, give eachother presents, have sexxy phone calls, write messages, hang out after school at functions that your parents dont really know about.
i once had the same paranoia, that girl i was telling you about before, we were gonna wait for eachother and be secret lovers. but then we started dating other people "she found one first" and she swore to me that she hardly even liked the guy and that she was still fighting like hell with her mom every day so she could see me. i couldnt go to her dance recitals, her birthday party, her friends parties, and she goes to a different school so i couldnt see her at all while this guy was in three of her classes and lived down the street from her. i got soo paranoid that she wasnt even trying and that she was just saying it, and that she wouldnt try cuz then if she changed her mind shed have to give the other guy up. eventually, i lashed out and said some really harsh things, only to find out, that atleast the part about her picking fights with her mom to see me, were entirely true. she didnt come to my birthday party, but apparently she spent the whole day crying cuz she couldnt go, and even though i couldnt go to her parties or be with her, she still tried to include me in everything in her life. all my jealousy and rage did was push her farther away from me and closer into the arms of an evil bastard who only wants her cuz he thinks he can get sex. whatever you do, unless you have proof, dont lash out and accuse him, it just might make him do whatever it is you think hes already doing.
to see him, it may require lying to your parents, you could
a) have him meet you and have both of you say your going to meet up with a different friend
b) bring a group of people, then if caught, say you didnt know hed be htere
c) go to a mutual friends party, or have a mutual friend throw a party and not tell your parents that your friend is his friend.
d) sports games or after school activities can get you some extra time.
2007-03-24 00:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by dandaman3523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get close to his parents, just talk to them. In about 2 weeks or so, ask them yourself for permission for him to go somewhere with you, or what ever the situation is.
Hope that helps!!
Bye
2007-03-20 16:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this depends on how old you are
also go get a life soon he will be old enough not to listen to his parents then you guys can be together.
2007-03-20 16:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by big rig girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS BECAUSE HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE
2007-03-20 16:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋