If a shy akward guy comes up to you and tells his feelings for you..and of course you drop him like a rock cause he has no scene of anything...he walks away broken..
Two years later you meet him agian but this time he looks ten times good looking then ever before...and more sure of himself..
Do you think the guy should tell her agian his feelings? or
Should the girl expect him to give a respone now that since he is no secure? or
Should the guy just drop her like a rock and find someone else?
2007-03-20 09:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I didn't like any of your answeres so here is mine. Regardless if a guy is shy and akward, I would not just dismiss him like a child or dog. I believe you treat people the way that you want to be treated and beauty is within a person's heart and soul and personality. I would befriend him and if things didn't workout I would still want to be friends and if 2 yrs later we should meant and he is this all handsome guy and stud then I'm not sure that he would be my cup of tea because now with the change he may feel that he is too good for me and no one likes to be rejected.
2007-03-20 09:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should go up to her and tell again and then drop her like a rock and walk away with the really sweet and sincere girl he has probably found by then. If she only goes after his looks and not his personality then she isn't worth it anyway.
2007-03-20 16:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toughie. Well, we all mature and age...since time has passed he probably understands that the girl wasn't interested at the time. He might not feel the same way now though. If he does, time will tell. The girl should approach him. If she gets dumped....maybe he is playing hard to get. Unless both ppl come out and talk about the situation, it is going to be kinda tricky to move things forward. But it's possible.
2007-03-20 16:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by I <3 my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...top question...lol
well i dont know what to say cuz for me look doesnt really count...well if the guy still like the girl why not?? one way to know it is to ask right??
and hofully this time she change her mind....which is more likely happen in reality if a girl turn down a guy and after few yrs...things change...who knows??
well i hope if the guy ask the girl out again is not bcuz he wants revenge....
anyways if this guy is u....i do really wanna wish u a good luck...if ever u ask her out again be ready to take that risk again...
2007-03-20 16:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did that befor to you then i wouldnt want anything to do with her because she shouldnt have been mean like that she shouldnt have looked at the looks of the guy and should have looked in the heart and saw beyond looks....but now thta you look great then go for someone who will treat you great and just doesnt want you for your looks good luck and dont talk to that mean girl anymore!1
2007-03-20 16:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a rock. She missed a good thing when she had a chance.
2007-03-20 16:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Krystina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this woman is interested now that he is 'good looking' and confident, she is shallow and not worth his time, regardless of how much he used to like her. He needs to find someone who values him as a person, not as an accessory.
2007-03-20 16:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much u like the girl. If u dont like go on with ur life n 4get bout the other girl! But if u like her talk 2 her!
2007-03-20 18:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the boy should forget about her , she had a chance and blew it. Maybe if she didn't play him the first time it would be alright but she did so move on.
2007-03-20 16:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by brianacapri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should defenetly tell her his feelings, if they're still the same. If the girl doens't care for him, then too bad. We have to move on!
2007-03-20 16:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by ~Cinthya Paola~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋