So, I am a booty call. I am fine with it as I am in another relationship and so is he. My problem is: I am always the one to call and set it up, he says he doesn't know when it is the best time to call me and doesn't want to get us in trouble if my hubby was to pick up phone. I've told him a number of times its okay to call when ever.
He comes over, and sex is great, and then we are good, BUT I am tired of being the one to call. Should I wait it out and make him call me or tell him NOW if he doesn't start calling ME, it's over?
2007-03-20 09:11:18 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OHMYGAWD...to all the people who act as if I am WRONG for what I am doing, you don't even know all the details of my marriage!! You should be ashamed of yourselfs for acting like you do!
2007-03-20 09:21:24 · update #1
You're not the booty call darling, he is.
You're the booty caller.
Having said that, it sounds like everything's great - why would you want to put that kind of pressure on the guy? That kind of goes against the whole purpose of the booty call. If he wanted grief, he'd stay with his wife...
2007-03-20 09:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's kind of hard to lay down the guidelines when it comes to a "booty call" because most the the ground rules come later in the relationship until things work out. I think that it is the fact that he feels guilty about the relationship in a whole and if your the one that out and makes the effort then his part in the relationship doesn't seem so bad. If you can talk to him about it, and let him know how u feel.
2007-03-20 09:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by nyangammas 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has it ever occurred to you that what you're doing is CHEATING?? You're keeping is a secret from your hubby! How do you think he's going to feel when he does find out? He will discover the two of you sooner or later. Do you really want to risk your "romps" for your marriage? I would knock it off, if I were you. That's pretty sad, if you ask me..
Uh, by the way, hun, you ARE wrong..
2007-03-20 09:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by chicyuna 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it's a booty call, then who cares? i would personally rather be the caller than the called, because i would rather be the user than the used (the caller decides when they want it, and the called accomodates them). i think what you really want is an affair with this guy. in which case you should get a divorce. in fact, you should already have that if you are making booty calls. geez.
2007-03-20 09:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by kittycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake Up Girl, first, he is your booty call. Second, do you really think that he has any kind of feeling to you, no, not even for make you his booty call. For me that means that he is doing you a FAVOR when you need it. And obviously, he doesn't like you that much, he likes his gf, thats the reason.
2007-03-20 09:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by bb4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear i dont know what to tell u honestly...is this what u really want??
anyways u mention "it just booty call" right?? so thats why he treated u that way.....
to be honest i cant mis judge u... i dont know U.....i'm just assuming u have a reason to be doing this....girl think twice what u really want....if u like this person tell and stay with him...dont be confused and maybe he is to you...
also maybe he has reason to step back...he doesnt want to be attach to u and later get hurt...do you understand that??
anyways this is all up to u....i just wish that whatever step u make it will bring happiness for u...GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-20 09:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call is great but during have someone in your life is not right. Sounds like hes in love with his and he doesnt want to mess it up if he tries to call you up for booty call. Yes it is over for him because he wont try it out to how to set it up. Sounds like hes very depend on you or people. If you want someone do share with you and back n forward then dump him. Find a person who can call you up. My former sex buddy always call me up and always set it up for me, even i do same.
2007-03-20 09:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like your getting soft and pink. You want him to give you attention. You guys are jumping off, thus you shouldn't expect anything except good sex. He doesn't owe u anything nor do you, if you can't handle it then stop, and you two should be ashamed of yourselves ( ie cheating, STDs).
2007-03-20 09:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by soursop22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. thats funny, you guys sound like kids. He probably doesnt want to call you so you wont get in any trouble!
This is crazy, what is this world coming too!?
2007-03-20 09:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by DramaMama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...so IS it a booty cal only situation....or are you wanting more. If you just like the sex...hush up and when ya got an itch...holla at ya boy. If you are going to game....well...thats just silly....you already HAVE a man to game on
2007-03-20 09:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by malemute1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋