Will I know it when I come across it?

Question

I am so afraid that if I finally come across a man that treats me right and loves me for me. That I will either reject him or I won't see how nice and loving he is. I have just gotten out of a 14 year relationship. That for the most part was one sided. I settled for what he gave me as normal. And tried to love him more just to show him how good we were together. Overlooking how he really was, and his emotional short comings. But I am so afraid that I won't no a good man when I see him. Have you ever felt that way.

Answer 1

No. Mainly because I have respect for MYSELF. No one wil respect you until you respect yourself.