we and my b/f are gonna start all over cuz latly all we do is fight and i think both of us kno that were not ment to be is it bad if i keep trying or should I just give up?? we have been together for 4years and were crazy bout each other....
2007-03-20 09:03:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what you are fighting about.... go to counseling figure out if you want to be going back and worth on this
2007-03-20 09:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go is VERY hard to do. What are your arguments about? Are they little ones that mean close to nothing or are they major arguments? Some people may love eachother but arent meant for eachother...there are too many difference b/t them to make something work. It happens...it sucks, but it happens. If you two argue ALL the time, the relationship may not be worth it. Arguing makes people sad...and relationships unhealthy. You 2 may be better off apart. Try to be just friends. Casually date others to see how it goes.
2007-03-20 09:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been with my guy for 4 years, 15 breakups, but were making it work, we truely beilive its meant to be, and so far were gone 7 months making it work. Youve gotta realize that anything thats important is worth fighting for.If its little stuff thats tearing you guys apart then you need to communicate more in your relationship, just because your physically attracted to each other - if your not attracted mentally then its doomed to failure. Make a choice, stick with it or not, because if you dont make up your mind youll hurt him and yourself more in the long run, either make it work or get out of it.
2007-03-20 09:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you are already fighting and you aren't even married, what so you think will happen when he knows you are his to do with what he wants to. I think you should pray and let go and let God lead you in the right direction.
2007-03-20 09:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by maxie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, why waste each others time? Especially when you need to take those spelling and grammar courses.
2007-03-20 09:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to hang on and do what? What happens the next time you guyz break up because you are going to break up again?
2007-03-20 10:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING....
SET IT FREE.........
IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU--
IT WAS MEANT TO BE.....!"
i think that says it all.......take a breather from each other, if he misses you.....then he will be back in a flash...
if not, you have not wasted anymore time on a relationship that is going no where.....
goodluck......to both of you.....
2007-03-20 09:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are crazy about each other then why are you fighting?
2007-03-20 09:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋