im getting impatient on when he going to ask me to marry him...weve been living together for over a year now and we are currently building a house together...weve talked about it before but never very seriously we both just know we are gonna get married some day...but i want it to be official...what should i do??
2007-03-20 08:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Stac (Stacey here too) what you shouldn't have done was move in together. I don't know why women think that living with a guy will catapult them into marriage, it won't. All it's going to do is prolong the matter- why should he make the commitment to marry you when has all the benefits of marriage without the legal entrapment now? You are doing things so backwards, you are investing in building a house - what if he never marries you? Who gets the house? You need to move things along with the wedding, ask him to either set a definite date or to go down to the court house and make thing legal for now and then have a ceremony once you've built your house and finances are better (if that's the issue). But I wouldn't put another brick on that house until you are officially his wife. Good luck.
2007-03-20 09:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You msut sit him down and have a talk with him. Explain how important it is to you, and tell him a date by which you;d like to be married. Why would you build a house with someone you aren't married to?
There is nothing wrong with telling the man you plan to spend the rest of your life with that you are ready and interested in becoming a family with him!
2007-03-20 16:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him a candle lit dinner for two with all of his favorites and YOU get on one knee and ASK HIM! Make it a tender and romantic moment so he knows you are being 100% serious! Its obvious you both love each other- and plan a long future together- house and all. Theres nothing wrong with you asking him ya know!!!!!! Grab hold of love and never let it go! Its way too hard to find!
2007-03-20 16:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone about it.
Have you pressured up to this point? If not, you're going to probably get some level of resentment back.
If you have, being direct certainly couldn't hurt. If you've already discussed it with him, why not bring it up again?
2007-03-20 16:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by M R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to The Secret... envision it happening.. not worry Is he ever going to ask me to marry me? Supposebly if you think positive thoughts.. more positive things will happen to you.
But be careful what you think.. because if you say I dont want this or something like that.. it will work exactly opposite because all the energy is focused on the negative word
2007-03-20 16:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by brillohead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you guys r gonna get married don't pressure him in to doing anything. say he does it in the next couple of months u will never know.
2007-03-20 16:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start to bring it up alot like talk about it and if u kno someone who just got married talk about them alot if hes smart he'll get the hint
2007-03-20 16:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him about it....Just bring up marriage and make it a more serious conversation....And tell him how you feel, dont be afraid to let it out hunny!
2007-03-20 16:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~small town girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should briing the "issue" up and ask him!! But dont presure him, just say i would like to know?
2007-03-20 16:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started to pull away when I was ready for him to ask, then he had to hurry up and pull me back in, ya know?
If you ask, you are taking away his chance to ask... which might not matter to him, but it might to you later on. I dunno how else to help... men don't ever pick up on hints!
Best of luck.
2007-03-20 16:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋