My ex broke up with me and gave me the lets be friends song. He said that he wasnt ready for a relationship but didnt want to lose me.So I said alright didnt think much of it. So I started dating another guy. My ex calls me to ask how have I been and asked me out on a date but I was on another date. He asked me who u with.I said chris. He like, chris who i dont know no chris.What did you do? We just went to see a movie.My ex asked me if we behaved.I could tell he was jeolous but wouldn't tell me.
Am i wrong to do this?
What does my ex want? he broke up with me...
2007-03-20 08:46:23 · 9 answers · asked by chalebori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. u go girl.. seriously, don't let him bug you. he doesn't deserve any consideration cuz he wanted to "be friends". don't let him trick u into being his booty call! :) it's great that u started seeing someone else. if he really wants you, he better work hard, and woo you. that's what you are teaching him... u are teaching him that
1) u are not gonna pine away, waiting around for him
2) u can find someone else too
3) he gotta treat you Right or you're gone too
4) he could lose you forever if he doesn't get his act together..
this is good for him.. because if he Truly wants you, he'll work for it. if he doesn't, then you're not heartbroken over it. u know what i mean? that's why the GUY is supposed to be the one who makes the moves, who needs to show the woman what a MAN he is. if he breaks it off, doesn't want to commit, whatever whatever, than it does NOT help him to learn what a jerk he is if u sit at home and cry for him. that only makes his head Bigger.
ur a smart chicka! :)
2007-03-20 08:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and to be able to eat it too...have you heard that before? He doesn't want you unless you are with someone else. This is very common for many people, men and women alike. Let him know what YOU want and if you want any form of relationship with him.
No, you aren't in the wrong, but maybe you should cut the connection between the two of you. OR, better yet, when you're on a date with someone else, be respectful of them and DON'T answer your phone unless it's an emergency kind of thing.
2007-03-20 15:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Karrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants u to stick around until hes ready for you, and the time that he's ready is when you date someone else. You can't be friends with an ex who's jealous of who you date. Tell him to mind his business or that u can't do the friend thing.
2007-03-20 15:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to feel like he can mess around with a lot of girls, while having you see nobody else but him. He is jealous, and no you're not wrong for doing it. Maybe it will show him how much he likes you, and he'll want to get back together. And if you don't want to get back together, oh well, it's his own fault. He shouldn't have broken up with you in the first place.
2007-03-20 15:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to mind his own business. You're right, he broke up with you; you're free to do whatever you want. He gets no say in the situation.
Friends will look out for each other, but they won't try to control each other.
He had his chance and blew it.
I wouldn't be shy about telling him that either.
2007-03-20 15:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by M R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey he said lets be friends not you!!! Friends tell each other everything no matter if it hurts or not!! i don't think that you are wrong for that he is the one that lost out not you!! Do you girl and don't play into his game!!
2007-03-20 15:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for get him he broke up with him he needs to move on to
2007-03-20 15:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we can't have. He's playing stupid games, tell him to f-off.
2007-03-20 15:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to be with you but he doesnt want you to be with someone else. its an ego thing. please move on you did nothing wrong
2007-03-20 15:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋