ok well we started our relationship n nov and he ended cheatin on e with a 15 year old girl after that i took him bac den he cheated on me again but this time he made a baby wit sum otha girl and he says he still lik e me and i still love him do u think here is still a chance? i kno stupid question but i love him?WHAT DO I DO?
2007-03-20 08:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by Diamond n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not the 15 yr old nor am i pregant he messed around wit a 15 year old and he got another girl pregant for people who is gettin it messed up
2007-03-20 08:39:28 · update #1
There must be someone else waiting and really deserves your True Love. But not this Cheater! He doesn't deserve your True Love. He deserves your Kick on his A$$.
Leave him and don ever love the cheaters. Cause they knows nothing without cheating.
2007-03-20 10:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Munaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but I really dont think that there is any chance here. Your so called boyfriend is most likely never going to change. He made a baby with some other girl, someone that you dont even know. He clearly has no respect for you, nor does he love you. I'm seriously not telling you this in order to hurt you in anyway shape or form but I'm saying this because my ex-boyfriend has done the same exact thing to me. He had slept with my best friend and got her pregnant and she asked me to be their daughter's godmother and of course i said hell no and he says that he wants a second chance and that he wont ever hurt me again. Hun, It's just words that are coming out of a guys mouth when he says that after cheating on you. He doesnt care about you at all. He just wants to get in your pants. And seeing with what you had wrote either you dont have sex with him which is very good on your part or he's just not satisified. Hun I promise you that their are better guys out there. I found a good guy and I know for a fact that you will too. I'll pray for you. Please get out of the relationship while you still can. Let him loose officially. If you ever need to talk email me sometime SassyBCute91@yahoo.com
I'll always be here.
Courtney
2007-03-20 08:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over this guy. And stop treating youself this way. This man does not love you if he did he would never had cheated on you. Once a cheater is always a cheater. Taking him back the first time he cheated on you was a big mistake. If you are harming anyone in this relatonship then it is you. Cause you are allowing this man to treat you this way. You need to put an end to this relationship and find a man who will love you and treat you right. I have no idea how can you trust a person like him. You need to wake up and real soon or else you will continue to feel miserable.
2007-03-20 08:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him in the trash girl. You need to learn how to say "no". Once is enough, but a second time and a kid!? If he wants you back and is afraid of the child he has brought unto this world then you leave him right there. He is lying to you! He says he still loves you because he knows you will fall for it over and over. If you don't say know then what will he do next? Get married behind your back? Whatever you do don't think about how much you love him but about how most of us humans really are. Are we cute little angles that never lie or are we born to destroy others lives?
2007-03-20 08:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. Once a cheater always a cheater. Love and dependency are not the same thing. Neither are love and lust.
What will you do if he continues to cheat on you? Ignore it?
If you can live your life knowing he is boning someone else, then I say stay with the punk. If you feel you deserve to be someone's one and only, dump him and get a grip.
2007-03-20 08:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ravyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you have been made a fool of too much time. you need to sit him down and have a serious talk with him. if he have cheated with you two times already there is a strong possibility that he will do it again. do you want to go through the same heart ache? he have already made a baby with one of them i bet his excuse the next time is that he's visiting his baby and then BAM! he's cheating again. i know how it feel to love someone and they hurt you, so if i were you i would seriously consider moving on....good luck with whatever you decide.
2007-03-20 08:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound harsh but if hes cheated on you twice what makes you think he wont again?!I know you "love"him but a BABY!?That's ridiculous if you ask me!I wish you could understand where I'm coming from!If he loves you he wouldn't watch you suffer then do it again!I'm sorry but you need to wake up from your fantasy and see whats actually happening!Hun,if someone would hurt you TWICE and then want you back then hes going to do it a third...fourth...and maybe even a FIFTH!Cry out your pain if you must but go out with someone who isn't such a jerk!:)!If this doesn't help pray to God to help you through!HE always knows what to do!I'm sorry if my advice doesn't help you!But if it does let me know...monkey_girl_1112@yahoo.com!
2007-03-20 08:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry *** alone!He dont care about you if he did he wouldnt have cheated the first time.Then you take him back only for him to do it again! yea rite gurl get over him.Move on get a hobby to help keep your mind off of him.It's not worth it he's not worth it! you should have more love and respect 4 yourself then that!No man walking this earth is worth that!
2007-03-20 08:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's just gonna keep cheating on you if you keep letting him get away with it. Why do you have to sit and wait around for him to make up his mind if he wants to be with you? It's not fair how he's treating you. My advice is to find someone better, but If you love him and think he's not gonna hurt you, go for it! But go with your gut feeling
2007-03-20 08:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Vanecia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋