I am single & attractive I meet men who never want a relationship but yet they want sex?? Why do men have to be this way? Why can't they just except a good girl for who she is & stop thinking that they r missing out on something by roaming the streets? I mean the game gets old & I'm at the point where I just wanna give up...I try to guard my heart but it's too hard. Help!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 08:30:15 · 19 answers · asked by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are as good as the women they cherish.
I found my final squeeze when I realized that to have all, I had to give all.
I used to believe that a woman got everything after divorce...well...i determined I'd just give her everything from day one. I tried it...and BINGO! she fell head over heels in love with me.
Guys, give your lady all you have, and tell her how precious she is. Never look at another woman again.
Girls, rock your man's world by endless positivity and sweet surprises.
This is the way it's meant to be.
Now, I'm blissful. You can be too!
Try it. Until then, alcohol and imagination will carry you through.
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2007-03-20 08:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok first of all, stop blaming every man. It can't possibly be EVERY guy, so it has to be you. There's something you are doing to attract these men. You need to change something about yourself, I'm not sure what though, you'll have to figure that out.
Maybe it's ...
where you meet them
what you wear/ how you wear it
how you act
what you say/how you say it
your confidence level (it shows if you are insecure and men will prey on that)
It could be many things. Once you start changing those up, you may see a difference. There ARE good men out there. I have one :) so can you. Good luck.
2007-03-20 08:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Caramella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some have us good guys have been distraught like you and have given up due to running into the same type of girls.
They say "nice guys finish last" and they are so many people including the media that proves it right. I was in the same position as you till I released myself from the game and gave up on love ...from then I feel released or better yet I feel as if I was in a war and now I am back home. Although I'd prefer a being single I don't recommend my path to you....
Ask yourself this..are you looking for the good man or the man that's right only for you? Is there a difference? Perhaps...
2007-03-20 08:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lone Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the qualities in the man you would like to be with. Does he have integrity? Class? Employment? Education? Humor? Compassion? Loyalty? Tenderness? Then ask yourself, "What kind of a woman would this man be looking for?" and do your own personal inventory. Clean up the loose ends and then put yourself in the places where a good guy might be found. Remember that being "friends" first really is a good idea.
2007-03-20 08:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by JennyP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right man will find you. There are hundreds of men with good hearts in the world. It just takes time for him to come down your street.
2007-03-20 08:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that...i watched all my friends from High school and college matture and marry shortly we graduated most of my friends had been in serious relationships all through high school...and i was the girl that got tired of the guy after a couple of weeks or he was just out to get in my pants. Around March of last year i completly and totally swore of guys...i said i'm done trying, i'm just hurting myself. THen BAM in June along come mr. perfect. He was right infront of me all through high school and college...And because of my promise that i made to myself back in March i couldnt allow myslef to just "jump in" the relationship, i gave it a couple of months to gather my feelings and by the end of june i could control my feelings anymore..i wanted him so much that i knew there is no way that this can be fake ...thats when i realized everything that i was looking for wasnt what i wanted or needed....When you least expect it it will happen it will happen....when youre not looking at all is when it will happen.
2007-03-20 08:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by mare022 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, most men are like that. almost no body is ready for a stable, long term relationship. It comes with huge responsibilities, you know, and it scares men away of women.
But you know, some of these men who don't want to be in a relationship, need just a small push for them to agree, it's only fear that blinds them.
Anyway, don't try hard in order to find a guy who's good and want to commit, whenever it's meant to happen, it will happen.
I wish you good luck.
2007-03-20 08:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, it IS hard! I know. I'm right there with ya! And I'm a fantastic freakin catch like I'm sure you are. Guys can be so frustrating! I feel the same way you do. I cry about it nearly daily for at least a minute or two if not longer, because I'm sick of this! I don't know why they have to be this way.
2007-03-20 08:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by emmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ALL men just want sex. Believe it or not, some men know what a relationship is. Your just dating the wrong men. Rather I should say your dating the wrong "boys"!
2007-03-20 08:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's likely one in all the guy you does not inspect two times. the rubbish guy, the mailman, the nerds at school, and so on. We seek for out the slender, the very eye-catching, those with the main earning potentials, the fierce and maximum outgoing. Then what we do is finally end up choosing the jerks. have faith me it is each and every woman's dream what you have defined. yet someplace alongside the way issues merely get muddy. I choose i ought to locate that as nicely. reliable success.
2016-11-27 01:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋