My boyfriend Pat is my everything. I love him more than life itself. He's the sweetest, charming, handsome, loving, and most amazing guy ever. Whenever I'm with him time just seems to go that much quicker. Pat and I have been going out for 5 months as of the 13th. On our anniversary we went out to a quite little italian restaurant with red roses and romantic music and he told me that he loves me so damn much that he doesnt even care that we dont have sex. He said that he hopes and prays that one day he would be my husband and the father of my beautiful children. I know that I sound immature and too young to realize what love is or anything but when I'm with him I feel that I do know the definition of love. I feel like I came up with the word. He always stays the night at my house and even when he doesnt I stay with him. There is a rare occasion when the two of us are away from one another. He is a senior and homecoming king and I'm a sophmore. Does he really love me like he says?
2007-03-20 08:14:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does love you. Sounds like he loves you very much.
2007-03-20 08:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, nobody on an Internet message board can give you a reliable answer to your question. No matter how much detail you give us, we don't KNOW if your boyfriend loves you.
It is possible to say that you love him, if what you're telling us is accurate.
Just go along like you are. You're, what, 16? He's 18. If you're like most people, it's going to be a long, LONG time before you know your emotions well enough to make reliable decisions about love and commitment. There are tons of people out there who are in their 30's and 40's who shouldn't trust their own judgement!
Take it slow, don't rush into anything. Enjoy one another's company. I don't know if you have "love", but you DO have something special. Enjoy the time you have together, because all things in life are, by definition, temporary.
Before you start talking about marriage and all that, you should probably get successfully through high school, and at least develop a plan for college and your future.
2007-03-20 15:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by DiesixDie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can only tell you what we think because we don't know this guy and from what you are saying, he seems to be madly in love with you. You both are a bit young but if you love each other age ain't nothin but a number. I pray that it works out for the 2 of you just take it slow and if it is real love then there won't be a need to rush anything and its good what he said about sex. It's a shame all men don't feel that way about love and sex and all women. God Bless
2007-03-20 15:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents actually allow you to have sleep overs with an older male? I think you are moving too fast. People change a lot when they get out of high school. He will be moving out and going to college or getting a job. Things will change drastically. He may love you and he may wait for you. But I would take things slow, stop doing the sleep overs (which will most likely lead to sex) and just see what happens.
It's only been 5 months. You are still in the beginning stages of your relationship and at your age there is a lot of hero worship for someone who is older and popular.
Be careful.
2007-03-20 15:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by TMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things, you say you have been going out for 5 months and you said that on your anniversary you went to this restaurant, but how could you have had an anniversary after 5 months? Anniversary has to do with years. Secondly, don't you live with your parents? They allow this, sleeping over, I mean?
2007-03-20 15:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you are in high school. Puppy love will continue for about another year or so, until you go to college and find out how many different types of people there are out there and that if you have to question your emotions, then it's not meant to be. Why are you talking about marriage anyway??? do you really want to be with him for that long and never know what the world has to offer. Go explore. No one should be in a serious relationship until they have at least graduated college and/or traveled the world.
2007-03-20 15:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nick O 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a sophomore so you're about 15 yrs old? And your mom allows him to spend the night at your house and you stay at his house? How are you doing this without the wrath of your parents? I know I sound like an old bat but really what has happened to this younger generation.
2007-03-20 15:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your words seem as true as the love you say your feeling and if its your heart thats telling you that your happy with him and he,s giving you no reason to be feeling anyother way then love as the young woman you are.I,ve never heard an immature woman who could speak of love and feelings as you have,Your not as immature as you may think, your a young lady who knows what he is and its time to say yes he is and be happy with each other.Take care good luck( young lady)
2007-03-20 15:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by krikett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If he loved you, he would respect your age, your boundaries, and the wishes of your parents (I hope and pray the wishes of your parents do NOT include a 17 or 18 year old sleeping with their 15 year old daughter).
He is playing on your immature sense of romance. He's thinking that the "I don't care if we have sex" will translate into "Oh, he loves me! Let's have sex!"
FYI: romance is more than a nice restaurant. It's RESPECT and TRUST.
2007-03-20 15:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a tricky one, the fact that he had to mention he loved even though u didnt have sex seems as if hes hinting that u should have sex... if he forces you then dont do anthing unless you feel it is right!
Good luck.
2007-03-20 15:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋