I can totally answer that because my boyfriend is (for lack of a better word) perfect.
(1) The best thing you can do for her is actually not to do too much for her. If she's smart and emotionally stable (i.e., not immature or over-dramatic), she'll want you both to have your space sometimes.
(2) Be supportive- if she is into school, plays sports, wants to become a doctor, works in child care, whatever it is. Let her know that you want her to succeed in whatever she wants to do in her life and you'll back her up no matter what.
(3) Spend time with her. That doesn't mean stop spending time with the boys or your family, but make time for her. If you don't have time to see her, just give her a call in advance and tell her what you're up to that day, and that you'll call her tomorrow. Unless she's overly needy or possessive, she'll be totally happy with that. Also be understanding when she needs to spend time with the girls, her homework, or her family instead of you sometimes.
(4) Surprise her once in a while- nothing huge, just something small, like pick a flower from your backyard to give her, or cook for her (if you can't cook do something very simple, she'll think the gesture is adorable even if you make mac and cheese).
(5) Listen when she speaks to you. It's amazing how often a person will speak to their significant other, and five minutes later the listener has no idea what was said. If she's a good girlfriend she will always do the same for you. This includes genuinely caring when she's had a bad day or is really excited about something, and she should do the same for you.
(6) Make an effort to get along with her friends and family. They're the most important people in her life besides you. They were there before you, and if you ever break up they'll still be there. She knows that, and she values those people accordingly. Again, she should be making this effort for you as well.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 08:12:53
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, are you sure this girl is worth being put on a pedestal like you are doing? By you asking this question, it tells me the lack of experience you have and most guys would call you a wuss, so I wouldn't bring this up in public. Just make sure this girl is worth it, you don't want to go through all this trouble for her to stomp on your heart. Second, there is a difference between treating her and you being treated. Meaning don't go showering her with meaningless gifts and blowing your wad and not getting the feeling you want returned. Many women will say buy her this and get her that and your girl is doing some other guy that treats her like crap behind your back. So pay attention to what she says no matter how boring or insignificant you may think it is because she will tell you what she wants, all women do. We're just slow to catch on. In my experience, the many little things you think aren't important seem to always outweigh the big things we think will some attention. For example, you'll get a lot farther by picking her up a rose every now and then and telling her you did it just because and not for a specific reason, as oppose to a necklace she may wear once in a blue moon. True the necklace is much more expensive, but it doesn't tell her how special she is to you like doing small things routinely. Beware signs of the GOLD DIGGER!
2007-03-20 08:18:27
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answered by killab773 2
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Just treat her as well as you possibly can. Ignore all of those people who are like, buy her stuff. I mean, get her chocolate at valentines day, and get her jewelry at Christmas, but you don't have to spoil her rotten. Just go with your heart. You should still get her something at her birthday, but make a cute card. Homemade stuff is always the best. Hope this helps, your girlfriend must be very lucky to have you!!!
2007-03-20 08:15:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Good for you hero. You seem to realize that you've discovered a real treasure. Tell her every single day that you love her. Also tell her that you'll be there to 'back her play'. The 'southern courtiesies' are nice too-like having the door opened, chair pulled out, help her with putting on her coat, etc. And never allow anyone to disrespect her.
2007-03-20 08:08:34
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answered by Anonymous
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treat her in a good manner, call her up like once a day maybe like 2ice a day if she asks or says, take her out, come over to her house and hango out, play games, go to dinner with her, hold her hand, kiss her, hug her...
do what ever you think you possibly can do. Show her you love her and have respect for her. Do things that her family may ask from you, like well some things. you know what i mean here? you got to be the BEST boyfriend you can possibly be to her, and have her parents LOVE you all to hell.
2007-03-20 08:13:05
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answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5
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That's sweet.
Constantly remind her that you care about her and tell her you love her. Do the smallest things to show her that what you feel for her is genuine. He a gentleman. Make her laugh. Remember her birthday and make it a big deal. Remember your anniversary. Call her. Keep your promises. Hold the door for her. Introduce her to your family. Introduce her to your firends as your 'girl friend.' When you're talking to one of your femmale friends, be sure to hold her close.
2007-03-20 08:08:37
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answered by Rewind 4
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There are so many things you could do. Honestly the smallest things mean the most to me. Like when my man leaves me little notes saying how much he loves me. Always remind her of that and make her feel good and needed. You can also surprise her with flowers for no special occasion.
2007-03-20 08:07:13
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answered by aa 2
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Pay attention to little details... that's what girls like, is the little things people don't notice that lights us up
2007-03-20 08:06:11
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answered by lysa24 3
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They think like that because of the dolls and **** they played with when they were little, they see a barbie they want to be Barbie, by the time they are teenagers it is to late to stop them becoming bitches
2016-03-16 23:34:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Sing to her, buy her a nice gift, pull out the seat when, you go out to eat. Hold her, rub her back, kiss her more often, support her, & let her tell you when she's ready to have sex!
2007-03-20 08:14:55
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answered by irishstile_perryman 1
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