I've noticed in pictures that my girlfriend posts on her facebook and webshots etc that she sometimes gets a little touchy feely with other guys. For example, in one picture, one guy is standing behind her with his arms around her. In one picture she's practically sitting on a guys lap (something she's actually done before while I was there). How can I bring this up with her, and am I overreacting? Is it wrong for me to ask her to STOP DOING THAT?
2007-03-20 07:45:48 · 12 answers · asked by Paul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not wrong , just talk with her about it
2007-03-20 07:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that puts her pictures on myspace (or facebook) is just looking for attention. If she is with guys in her pictures and is touchy feely...who knows what they do out of the picture. Find a real girl...not some teenagey girl who puts her pictures on myspace. Myspace/facebook is STUPID!!!...the only thing it is useful for is for showing yourself off. It's a waste of time. You deserve better. I don't think you are overreacting. She sounds like the typical immature adolescent girl. I don't know how old you are but find a better girl.
2007-03-20 07:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that type of behavior is inappropriate for someone in a monogomous relationship. It's called "emotional infidelity", and although there aren't sexual relations involved, it still is cheating.
The behavior you've described here clearly defines her as someone who seeks constant approval from others. When this percieved 'need' presents at this level, it's described as a neurosis.
Therapy could help her discover why she is consumed with this deficit in her charactor. This type of person, especially before the age of approximately 30, is at a statistically higher risk of unsatisfactory intimate relationships. Good Luck.
2007-03-20 09:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, no I don't think it's wrong for you to ask her to respect you what so ever I mean she's with you and your hands should be touching her that's it, that's all. If she gets mad about you asking her to stop sorry but you have a serious problem on your hands.
In my view when a man and woman are together that's it, there's no one else putting there hands on me unless there are looking for problems because there is no room for disrespect in a relationship and if it's there don't look for any kind of future in it.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 07:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong for you to think that all. She's giving you the wrong idea that she's into other people and she's also giving the other guys the wrong idea, because she has you as a boyfriend.
If you guys are in a serious relationship you need to tell her it bothers you, and if she doesn't want to quit, then you need to quit the relationship.
2007-03-20 07:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by panduhattack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would camly try to talk ton her about it and start the sentences with "this make ME feel..." dont make her feel like your are trying to control her. But, YES i do think that her behaviour is outta line, I would be mad at my bf if I saw that. And im sure u trust her, but that kind of behaviour is inappropriate when ur in a relationship!
2007-03-20 08:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy_717 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats appropriate girlfriend behavior, i would never do this....however i am not a very touchy feely person to begin with, unless im drunk....so your girl may just be one of these people, anyway just tell her how you feel about this...if she cares about you and your feelings she will tone it down
2007-03-20 07:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong for you to ask her to not do that anymore. She seems to like a lot of attention from other guys. Be careful with this one
2007-03-20 07:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a limit...however it is a picture and if they have facebook i would say its probably all just for show...I have Facebook and there are pics of me on there doin the same thing but i guess it depends on how well they are friends too...mine are just friends...if it bothers you tell her. she doesnt read minds...
2007-03-20 07:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by In Love with Mr. Perfect! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were these pictures taken before you two were together? if so then that is her past. if not... then you need to sit down and calmly tell her your feelings. if she cares for you she will respect how you feel and understand where you are coming from. if not... then dump her and find a classier girl.
2007-03-20 07:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... well, to me- personally, it is highly inappropriate. I would NEVER do that for respect for my bf and myself actually. To me, the way it sounds, she may be a real flirty person and not think twice about it. I would bring it up to her. Let her know how it makes you feel...
I dont think youre over-reacting at all.....ask.
2007-03-20 07:51:36 · answer #11 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋